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I don’t believe in extremes. We all are on that scale somewhere. I would say it is the latter, but perhaps a combination. Not necessarily been hurt that much, but other psychological conditions that influenced my ability to let people close to me. You could say that until high school the entire “me” was a lie to hide from the world.
Having those relationships in one thing, the problem I have is that I start manipulating or sabotaging relationships if they get too close to me without noticing myself.
I have always liked to compare life to a chess game. Actions x reactions. Every move forces a reaction and the ability to adapt.
Self-awareness in what way? I have interacted with psycho-/sociopaths who seemed quite self-aware of what they were doing. Perhaps in a different way than what you were referring too?

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