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Reply To: Denial of it all

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Jan7
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Takenmylifebac, one thing you have to come to terms with, is the fact you are not dealing with someone with rational thinking. So you have to stop trying to analysis why he does stuff & just come to terms with that is & always will be his pattern of behavior. Once you let go of trying to figure out his way of thinking it’s much easier to walk away.

For 12 years I keep trying to give my ex h a chance…making excuse for his behavior. Once I came to terms with the fact he is who he is showing me…I was able to let go. He was never going to change. He will be abusive to his next girlfriend, mistress and wives.


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