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Donna Andersen

Bluraven86 – you are absolutely correct to be concerned. What you are describing is a classic case of sociopathic seduction. He sounds disordered and controlling, and she sounds addicted.

You might want to get my book – “Red Flags of Love Fraud – 10 signs you’re dating a sociopath.” It explains the warning signs.

As far as what to do with your ex – it can be really difficult. As you have found, bringing up concerns makes her defensive, which is typical. Plus it will play into what he is telling her – “Your ex wants to keep us apart.”

You do want to maintain contact, because he will try to isolate her. Perhaps you can try to insist that your family activities continue uninterrupted. That will keep you and the kids together, hopefully with her.

Actually, I do hope he goes away. That would be the best solution.

Red Flags of Love Fraud (ebook or softcover)

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