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Reply To: Denial of it all

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Jan7
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Takenmylifeback, you have done so much to break free from this man in such a short time. You should be so proud of yourself!! Bravo!💜

It’s hard to break free emotionally from the abuser. This is why a restraining order is good…it prevents YOU from contacting him too. This gives you time to get your body physically back working correctly (heal your adrenal glands) & your mind thinking correctly gain from all the stress you endured.

I’m sorry that he is taking you back to court. this is what they do!! They want power & control over their victims, even if it means to take them to court. See about getting a court appointed “wizard” to help you out with child custody. The word “court wizard” is used in some state courts. The are basically court mediators and will allow you to have some peace in your mind when dealing with a high conflict person like your ex.

Also look into the book: Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder Paperback – July 1, 2011
by Bill Eddy (Author),‎ Randi Kreger

I have not read this book, but have seem many posting with regards to it being excellent. It’s posted on Amazon where you can read over 200 positive remarks from readers.

Also the book (amazon) One moms battle by Tina Swiften. She has a site.

It’s not easy to leave a abuser. But you did it! Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder Paperback – July 1, 2011
by Bill Eddy (Author),‎ Randi Kreger (AuthoYou should be so proud. Your daughter & you now will have more peace in your life. It will be difficult at times because of child custody. But you are FREE hon!! That is powerful!! You took back your power!! Bravo!!

You are stronger then you think!! 💜💪


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