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Thanks for your kind words. The wierd thing is I am not afraid of him as he never physically abuses me. It is more the constant undermining and fault-finding and crazy-making. I feel afraid of my own inability to stand on my own 2 feet. He makes me fee like I can’t do basics like boiling a kettle or turning off a light switch properly and is constantly lecturing and correcting me — though he never lifts a finger to help unless there’s a visitor in the house so I don’t know how he’s come to be such an expert. He’s constantly telling me I’m not “normal” and he is and his life with his previous wife was “utopia” and I ruined his life. He’s constantly saying he’s going to leave, and half of me wishes he would and half of me is just afraid I wont cope.

  • This reply was modified 9 months, 2 weeks ago by  steph66.

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