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Reply To: So unhappy and confused– is it me?

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steph66
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OMG thank you outofeggshells. That could have been me writing the exact same things. It’s like they both read from the same Rule Book. I told him he treats me like a burden and like I ruined his life. To which he just replied: “That just shows we are both thinking the same thing.” Why I let myself get treated like this I really don’t know. He constantly grinds me down, criticising and finding fault til I’m scared to do anything at all for fear it’ll be wrong. And even then, he still lectures me on how I should do things from emptying the dishwasher to the microwave (ie his way) like I am 5 years’ old. Well done you for leaving. Tell me how you have done it and found the strength to go. What were the steps you took?


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