Reply To: So unhappy and confused– is it me?




It’s normal for you to miss him as the person he should be, the person he said he was, the person you hope he will be. Finding out and understanding that he is a horrible person who doesn’t care about anyone is a loss that your’e experiencing,and grieving is normal. He’s also treated you terribly and that is a lot of pain to process.

The best thing you can do for yourself is have no contact with him at all about anything. He will only harm you with any contact. He does not care about anyone’s well being. You will feel better sooner and get yourself back if you can maintain no contact. It is difficult to do; there is some good information about no contact on this site if you search.

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