Reply To: I could never figure this guy out….


Donna Andersen

honibee – the guy is a disordered predator. What he wants is power and control over you. It was always about power and control, right from the very beginning. That’s not a relationship.

Your instincts were warning you that he is a predator. Listen to your instincts – they are there to protect you. Read “the Gift of Fear” by Gavin deBecker. When you get the type of instinctive warnings that you received, you must pay attention.

So why did you text him after you had been away from him for 3 months? Because you are addicted. These relationships are highly addictive. We have lots of info about this on Lovefraud.

You must decide that YOU are done with HIM. Do not contact him ever again.

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