Reply To: I want to talk to his recent ex, for validation




Please take this in the spirit I intend. You NEED to stop listening to ALL voicemails, delete ALL texts, Pins, etc. You NEED to stop engaging with him, his life, his wives, ALL of it. It doesn’t matter who thinks he is bi-polar or a narcissist.

What he is isn’t changed by what anyone thinks about him.

You won’t get your life back until he is TOTALLY behind you.

Your questions about helping her are really just a symptom of you (still) being caught up in his life. She sounds like she knows what she is dealing with, and she will get out of the chaos when she decides to, when she has had enough, or when he dumps her. She is responsible for herself.

You are responsible for you. Please take care of YOU.

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