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Reply To: Another Sociopathic Bullet Dodged?

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Donna Andersen
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rosered – You DID NOT LET HIM INTO YOUR LIFE!!!! You had two lunch dates, noticed the problems, and stopped communicating with him. You were SUCCESSFUL in PROTECTING YOURSELF!

Don’t be hard on yourself. Congratulate yourself!!!

The fact is that there are millions of sociopaths around us – especially on dating sites. The only way to totally prevent an interaction with them is to not talk to anybody — and that is no way to live. The next best thing is to be aware and get rid of them as soon as you spot them – which is exactly what you did!!

Sometimes there is a purpose to these encounters. It could be to validate that your sensors are working – and they are. It could also be a catalyst to help you process and release some residual anger – grief – pain – whatever from your previous relationship. So of those feelings come up, allow yourself to experience them, and then let them go.


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