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slimone
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nmbr5,

4 months doesn’t sound like much, does it? But lots of these types of people work FAST, and pretty soon, before you know it, your life is completely entwined in their fantasy. When it ends, even if after such a short time, it is a shock.

I think that not only is it a shock to be betrayed to this degree, but also because we find out about people who are out in the world who are like this man. THAT is shocking!

Before I understood personality disorders I assumed everyone pretty much wanted the same things, had good hearts, and wanted to help others. I had no idea that there are some people who simply cannot love, only want to satisfy their own egos, and use others to get what they want. They lie, cheat, steal, manipulate, triangulate, and destroy people. Like a compulsion.

Lovefraud is a great place to learn what you need to know to avoid further heartache and danger. It is also a good place to get ongoing validation, for when you’re unsure of yourself.

Slim


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