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Reply To: Endless Narcissistic Supply

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slimone
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needingclarity,

I think one of the things you are not ‘getting’ is that his behavior is NOT ABOUT YOU AT ALL. His treatment of you, or her, or anyone is about HIM. What he wants in that moment.

Her being cuter, skinnier, richer, or dumber, smarter, whatever-er….these are just goodies for him to pick and choose from. He will make his choices for as long as they suit him, and then he will move on. THIS IS THE PATTERN.

Your appearance and behavior is not ‘why’ he made his choices. It is not why he is the way he is.


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