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Donna Andersen

sbff8 – now what you are experiencing is called a “smear campaign.” The guy probably went to the people you know a long time ago and told them (with mock outrage and horror) that you were pursuing him. So by the time you went to them, they believed that you were the one who initiated everything.

Sometimes there isn’t much you can do about a smear campaign. Usually we advise deciding who is important to you and who is not. If someone is important, you try to explain what really happened. If they are not important, you write them off.

Yes, it is shocking. But it is, unfortunately, so typical of a sociopath.

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