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Reply To: I want to talk to his recent ex, for validation

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jaybird
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**Update**

Yesterday I texted another number I had for the narc’s ex and she responded. The narc destroyed her other phone in a rage. She got a new one with the different number.

We texted back and forth for hours. She was thankful that I reached out to her. She said it helped to communicate with someone who knows the narc’s evilness. I understand that. It helped me too. I got the validation. It was not me. He did the same with her. Some really crazy stuff!

For myself, I noticed that my body and mind reacted when I was talking with her. My face became flushed and I felt extremely anxious. I wondered if talking with her was helping or hurting. Time will tell.


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