Reply To: N showing tremendous GUILT?



He is not showing guilt – he is guilting YOU. Classic behavior – he sleeps on the couch -you feel bad for him. He buys you gifts – but “treats himself to a shopping spree” — absolute selfishness. You ask if he might not be a narcissist? The answer is pretty obvious. He is only thinking about himself – HIS pleasure, HIS comfort, HIS goals. He is gaslighting you by saying something did not happen (the affair) in the face of concrete proof, then lovebombing you (the gifts) to distract you, then making YOU the bad guy because he “has to sleep on the couch”. Oh my. Whatever label you put on him – this is not a good man. Glad you are leaving — now erase this toxic person from your life and be happy!

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