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Jan7
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Hi Givemestrengh, sending you huge hugs hon. 💜💜💜You did the right thing by breaking it off with him. He is controlling, manipulate, cunning, and a long list of other things. You are stronger then you know! 💪

Right now, it does NOT matter what “personality disorder” he has, but he has at least one. Right now what does matter is you putting yourself first. Protecting yourself because you do not know how he will react to you breaking up with him for good.

EVERYTHING YOU WROTE IN YOUR post is EXACTLY what my ex husband, a sociopath did to me!! When I finally escaped his grips my counselor told me that he was a sociopath. I researched this and read a book she gave me. and there on the pages of the book was the truth! He was indeed a sociopath. Then researched the web and found this wonderful site Donna & Terry have created to educate myself & connect with others that have endured the same hellish nightmare.

PLEASE KNOW that The most dangerous time for a woman in a abusive relationship is when she is about to break up or has broken up with her abuser. PLEASE PLEASE CALL YOUR COUNTRIES NATIONAL DOMESTIC ABUSE HOTLINE (USA 800-799-SAFE) to talk with a free counselor about a Domestic Abuse EXIT & SAFETY PLAN. let your most trusted friends & family know what is going on.

Also, if you go to the home page of Lovefraud & go down to the YELLOW BOX, Donna (site creator) has great info. In addition go up to the top of Lovefraud and watch the free videos she has made. They will open your eyes & mind.

Do a search here at Lovefraud (top right top corner) for the following & on the net:

No contact rule
Gas lighting abuse
pity play manipulation
covert narcisiist
covert sociopath

When I had proof that my husband (now ex) was indeed having an affair with a co worker, he begged me, sobbed, cried, apologies, etc etc said he would do anything for me not to leave him. I was done with the whole nightmare marriage. But he conned me back in. I stayed 7 plus more years and the HELL he inflicted was just turned up ten fold after that affair. These types of people know exactly how to con people back into their con game. DO NOT TAKE HIS BAIT.

YOUR GUT INSTINCT IS SCREAMING THAT THIS MAN IS A MARCHING BAND OF RED FLAGS!! Believe your gut hon!!

I saw red flags like you & ignored them. DONT IGNORE THEM!!

Google “Oprah Gavin Debecker you tube” to watch their interview on listening to your gut. Gavin’s book is The Gift of Fear. Your local library may have it. It’s a must read book along with Donna’s book Lovefraud 10 signs you are dating a sociopath (see Lovefraud book store for this book up at the top of LF site here).

SO SO GLAD THAT YOU HAD THE COURAGE TO POST HERE AT LOVEFRAUD!!

We hear you, we believe you, we are here for you!!

Keep venting & reading post here at love fraud. Just google what he has done to you because most likely Donna has written an article on that topic.

Wishing you all the best! 🌺🌺🌺

Take care. 💜💜💜


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