lf2

Reply To: Seeking advice: upcoming bday and socio's mother outreach

#47265

slimone
Participant

emme8,

Here’s what to think about when deciding to out him. Do you want to re-engage in the abuse game? Because, you have no confirmation or certainty what he will do when he finds out what you have said. Will the few minutes of conversation be worth it?

After so many years of recovery I look at these ‘opportunities’ as not being worth it. What seems way more important to me at this point is the amount of distance between me and ‘it’ (the person, the relationship, the game, the abuse, lies, and manipulation). The distance has given me peace, security, and growth.


Send this to a friend