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Donna Andersen

Pennride -I am so sorry for your situation. I am sure your husband is behaving in that way just to torment you. I agree with your friend – you need to evaluate whether moving your husband’s stuff out of the room will incite him to worse behavior. Or, it may make no difference. Just because his stuff is no longer in your room doesn’t mean he won’t come in and berate you.

The key is to figure out how to get away. You might have to do it in stages. Is there anyone you can stay with temporarily? Maybe even a women’s shelter. They should understand that verbal abuse may escalate to violence.

Perhaps you should go ahead and move away to the other job and worry about the divorce later. It will take a long time anyway – divorces with sociopaths are never easy.

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