Reply To: Controlled Sociopath


Donna Andersen

Karen55 – I am so sorry for your experience. It sounds like your ex engaged in parental alienation and turned your sons against you. This can be very difficult to overcome.

The first thing is to evaluate if your sons have the same traits as your ex. These personalities are highly genetic, so it is possible. If any of your sons do have the same traits, I am afraid that you may have to let them go.

If any of your sons are capable of love, but have been misled by your ex, there may be hope. The best thing you can do is heal yourself, pull your own life together, and look for small opportunities to start rebuilding your relationships with them.

I’m glad Lovefraud is helping you. (I’m the author. Dr. McDermott is a valued contributor.)

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