Reply To: 'you are too needy' – translation please



If I could count how many times I heard that — and “You are being too sensitive”, “You misunderstood”, “I never said that.” All of these are deflections to make you doubt yourself – your truth, your perception…Gaslighting at it’s best. “Being needy” to a sociopath is code for “your needs are not as important as mine”. My guess is you heard this when the ‘spath was into other things and getting bored with you. They have to be in charge of everything – including your emotions…that is why they play this game – it gives them the power. Don’t buy into it. Take back YOUR power. Stay strong.

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