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Do you really want to overcome the betrayal of the sociopath (narcissist, psychopath), but don’t know how?
Is it time to leave limiting beliefs and experiences behind, so your life can fully blossom?
Are you ready to finally feel real, authentic love?
Recovery from devastation by a sociopath is possible — I’ve done it, and you can too
I learned about sociopaths the hard way — by marrying one.
When I met James Alwyn Montgomery, my career was going great. My love life, however, not so much. I was lonely and vulnerable, and Montgomery pounced.
In two and a half short years, he wiped out my finances, crashed my business and ruined my self-esteem. Despite his proclamations of love, to him, I was nothing but a juicy target.
Why had I fallen for him? Luckily, I was already working with an energy healer. She helped me uncover mistaken beliefs and old wounds that set me up to be deceived and betrayed. I was able to release the stagnant, twisted energy of my past, which cleared the way for new, vibrant energy of possibility.
Ten days after I finally let go of my attachment to James Alwyn Montgomery, I met a new man, Terry Kelly.
We dated. We fell in love. And we’ve now been happily married for more than 20 years.
No matter how dire your situation, the best path forward starts with your own emotional healing
When sociopaths (narcissists, psychopaths) target you, they find your vulnerabilities and promise to make everything better. They offer a soothing balm to your pain — except it’s all fake.
When we work together, I will explain who you’re dealing with and why the normal rules of social interaction do not apply to sociopaths. If you like, I’ll also offer practical suggestions on how to cope with where you are, evaluate your options and make Plans A, B and C.
Yes, real-life problems need to be solved, but true recovery comes from emotional and energetic healing. I use three transformational approaches to assist you:
- Clinical EFT Tapping (Emotional Freedom Techniques)
- Reiki
- Guided Mindfulness
These are all forms of energy healing. They recognize that our bodies, minds and emotions are connected. Experiences affect us physically, mentally and emotionally, and healing involves all these dimensions of our lives.
With Clinical EFT Tapping, we gently bring to mind painful memories while you tap lightly on acupressure points on your hands, face and chest. This soothes your nervous system by reducing the cortisol that your body produces, so your feelings of stress dissipate.
Reiki breaks down blockages within your energetic body, balances chakras and straightens energetic pathways to allow your life force to flow freely. That’s why you feel both relaxed and energized.
With my Guided Mindfulness technique, I help you bring difficult emotions into your awareness and acknowledge them, without judgment. Within minutes, the emotions shift and dissolve.
All three healing modalities are available to you, depending on what you need in the moment.
Individual appointments
30-minute session — $65
If you’re looking for validation of your perceptions, or if you’re wondering whether you may have a sociopath in your life, I can usually answer your questions in 30 minutes. If you want to start your recovery, 60- or 90-minute sessions are best.
60-minute session — $125
In a 60-minute session, I can answer your questions and help you plan a strategy for escaping or dealing with your situation. Or, you can have a nice healing experience of Guided Mindfulness, Clinical EFT Tapping or Reiki.
90-minute session — $180
If you have questions and also want to work on your recovery, a 90-minute session is ideal. We’ll spend the first 30 minutes discussing what happened and your current situation. Then, we’ll have a full hour for Clinical EFT Tapping, Reiki or Guided Mindfulness. You’ll gain insight and feel better.
Healing packages
Feel Better Fast Package — 3 sessions
You’re stressed or upset and it’s wearing you out. Maybe it’s the sociopath making you crazy. Maybe it’s some other issue. Whatever — you need to relieve your internal tension so you can feel calmer and make good decisions.
We address whatever the problem is now. We also address why you are so triggered by it. Maybe you’ve been in this situation before. Maybe other people have treated you in a similarly unpleasant way. By taking the stress out of today’s problem and yesterday’s contributors, you’ll feel better fast.
What’s included
- 3 private sessions — first session is 90 minutes, next 2 sessions are 60 minutes
- Two sessions in the first week if you want
- Clinical EFT, Reiki or Guided Mindfulness — whatever you need in the moment
- Bonus webinar:
- Sociopathic Seduction: How you got hooked and why you stayed
Choose the Feel Better Fast Package — $387
Deep Emotional Release Package — 6 sessions
Maybe you’ve been to therapy; you know why you feel anxious, angry, shamed, lonely or sad. But understanding why you feel bad doesn’t make you feel better. True recovery from the sociopath, or whatever you endured, means feeling peaceful and calm.
We work together to process your emotional wounds, which are located somewhere in your body. We gently acknowledging your experiences and your hurt, without judgment. As a result, an amazing thing happens — the pain dissipates, and you feel relief.
Healing is a process: A particular incident, and its energetic heaviness, comes to awareness, you release it from your body, you feel better. Rinse and repeat. Eventually, with this deep emotional release, you feel centered, relaxed and open to new possibilities.
What’s included
- 6 private sessions — first session is 90 minutes, next 5 sessions are 60 minutes
- Schedule your sessions at your own pace
- Clinical EFT, Reiki or Guided Mindfulness — whatever you need in the moment
- Bonus webinars:
- Sociopathic Seduction: How you got hooked and why you stayed
- Maybe You’re Not Codependent — You’re Traumatized
Choose the Deep Emotional Release Package — $725
Recover and Reimagine Your Life Package — 12 sessions
Yes, there is life after the sociopath, or whatever crisis you’re facing. So, what do you want? Not what does your partner or your mother want, and not what does society say you should want. What is your heart’s desire?
Of course, we first prioritize solving your immediate problems and healing your past and present wounds. But then, we look inward and forward. We identify what you want. We identify what’s blocking you — usually it’s fear or limiting beliefs.
While you release your past, you also design a blueprint for your future. With internal roadblocks identified and removed, you can focus your energy on creating the life you truly want.
What’s included
- 12 private sessions — first session is 90 minutes, next 11 sessions are 60 minutes
- Schedule your sessions at your own pace
- Clinical EFT, Reiki or Guided Mindfulness — whatever you need in the moment
- Visualization and action plan for your future
- Bonus webinars:
- Sociopathic Seduction: How you got hooked and why you stayed
- Maybe You’re Not Codependent — You’re Traumatized
- Lovefraud Understanding and Recovery 5-part Masterclass
Choose the Recover and Reimagine Your Life Package — $1,399
Here’s how you benefit from our work together
- Betrayal by a sociopath is an experience that happened to you. It is not who you are. Through Reiki, Clinical EFT Tapping and my Guided Mindfulness technique, I help you reclaim yourself.
- Clinical EFT Tapping combines three proven psychological therapies: exposure therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy and acupressure. You experience the power of all three in one short session.
- As a child, you didn’t have the capacity to deal with traumatic events. So, you wrapped the memories in protective sheaths, called a trauma capsules, and buried them in your subconscious mind or body. With Clinical EFT Tapping, we find and release them.
- Scientists have proven that Clinical EFT Tapping is effective for anxiety, depression and PTSD. Even better, when symptoms are relieved through tapping, they don’t return.
- Maybe you’re not ready to address your emotional pain. If that’s the case, we can do Reiki — even remotely. Healing energy pours into your body and spirit, nurturing you wherever you need it.
- Healing is up to you — no one can do it for you. The first step is to choose yourself. I’ll support you with Clinical EFT Tapping, Reiki and Guided Mindfulness to help you recover emotionally, reduce your stress and set you on the road to recovery.
Customer Reviews
Healing with Donna Andersen FAQ
What if I’m not sure that you can help me?
I offer FREE 15-minute Discovery Calls. You tell me what you’re dealing with. I’ll explain my services and healing packages. We’ll see if we’re a match. Learn more about a FREE 15-minute Discovery Call.
Do we talk via phone or video?
If you mostly want to talk about sociopaths or ask for practical advice, phone or WhatsApp are fine.
For EFT Tapping, we do need video, so Zoom is best.
For Reiki, I don’t need to see you, so phone or WhatsApp are ok.
You’ll receive a Zoom link when you make your appointment. If you prefer to talk via phone or WhatsApp, let me know.
Is my session confidential?
Absolutely! I never reveal what you tell me. In fact, I wouldn’t even reveal that we talked.
I don’t think I’m dealing with a sociopath. Can you still help me?
Yes! Although I’m extremely familiar with abusive relationships, I can also help you deal with fear, relieve stress associated with physical pain, overcome internal blocks to living your best life, and more.
Is there any proof that Clinical EFT Tapping works?
Yes! Researchers have published more than 100 scientific articles in peer-reviewed professional journals about the effectiveness of Clinical EFT Tapping. I am certified by Dawson Church, Ph.D., author of many of the studies. Clinical EFT has been proven to work with anxiety, depression, athletic performance, pain and physical symptoms, phobias, PTSD, trauma, serious illnesses, weight loss, cravings and addiction. If you want to know more, contact me at donna@lovefraud.com and I will send you links to the research.
Is there proof that Reiki works?
Yes! According to published research, Reiki is a safe and gentle complementary therapy that activates the parasympathetic nervous system (the rest and digest system) to heal body and mind. Research also proves that Reiki works both in person and remotely. As a certified Reiki master, I can help you even though we are in different locations. If you want to know more, contact me at donna@lovefraud.com and I will send you links.
I’ve tried Tapping with online videos and nothing happened. Why should I call you?
I am certified in Clinical EFT Tapping. I have been trained to ask detailed questions about your experience, so we can be very precise about the issues you are tapping on. The idea is to uncover specific incidents from your own past that created your emotional wounds and release them. This is impossible with generic online tapping, but it is exactly what I help you do with Clinical EFT.
Do you accept insurance?
Traditional health insurance typically does not cover EFT Tapping sessions. However, if your employer offers you a Health Care Flexible Spending Account (HCFSA), or if you have a Health Savings Account (HSA), EFT services may be reimbursed. Check with your plan.
What if I can’t find a convenient appointment on your calendar?
Maybe you have difficult work hours or live in a distant time zone. I understand. If you can’t easily find a good date and time for your appointment, just send me an email at donna@lovefraud.com or call 1-609-309-9108. We will work out a mutually convenient session time.
My story is so complicated — where do I start?
I am very familiar with what happens when you’re dealing with a sociopath or other difficult person, so if you just explain a little bit, I’ll get the picture. Feel free to share — I’ve heard just about everything, so I don’t judge. Whether you need to escape, recover emotionally, or let go of feelings like anger or grief, I can help you.
What if I’m not ready to tackle my problems?
I am here to serve you and I want you to feel safe. If all you want right now is perhaps to sleep better, I may suggest that we start with Reiki. There’s no talking, just relaxation. You are the client, so we do what will help you the most.
P.S. — The Bottom Line
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Here’s how I help you. I explain sociopaths (narcissists, psychopaths) and how they affect you. I offer advice for your situation. I help you recover from the emotional turmoil of betrayal, disappointment and loss through Reiki, Clinical EFT Tapping or Guided Mindfulness. You don’t have to stay stuck. By working together, you’ll feel better and move toward the peaceful and happy life that you want.
very good, informative, thank you
I am grateful that I had the opportunity to speak with Donna. She validated what others would not and seemed like she actually took me seriously. I am determined to get back what this hired con man pervert and his flying monkey crooks stole from me.
I have benefited immensely and am so grateful to have found an empathetic, intelligent and supportive therapist who is extremely knowledgeable about sociopathic abuse. I have hope for the first time since I was betrayed almost 2 years ago.
It’s such a rare thing to actually get into an intimate relationship with a severely disordered person and very few people can understand the depth of the pain and cognitive dissonance and self blame – and I always feel very heard and understood when I speak to Donna. It’s a rare gift that she does this work and I’m so grateful- anyone who has been the victim of someone with an antisocial personality disorder or malignant narcissist should really consider getting help through Donna. She doesn’t victim blame and call us codependent she actually says that this order people target people that are pretty bright and accomplished it’s so contrary to a lot of the negative views of women who get victimized.
I’ve had 2 sessions with Donna and she’s made me feel comfortable talking through what I consider to be one of the biggest challenges a repeated domestic violence survivor can face. Her guidance and recommended treatment plan have given me hope for a targeted recovery. I like how she focuses on resolving complex issues and quickly addressing the current impact it’s having on your mental health. Thank you, Donna! Looking forward to working together.