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Donna Andersen explains sociopaths, narcissists and other exploiters.

Dating again after the sociopath

You thought you found love, but you found a sociopath. You were burned — badly. Your ex is gone now, still, you hesitate to try again.

Your reluctance is understandable. But don't give up! It is totally possible to find a shiny new romance, even after a nightmare experience. In this webinar, Donna Andersen, author of Lovefraud.com, tells you how.

Once you're feeling centered — and Donna explains how to know when you are sufficiently healed — there are approaches and strategies you can employ to protect yourself from becoming involved with a scammer or exploiter again. Donna Andersen explains the warning signs of disordered behavior, how to check out prospective partners, and how to know if someone who seems to be doing nice things for you is faking it.

Yes, millions of sociopaths live among us. But far more people are not disordered. In this program, you'll learn to distinguish those who are capable of love from those who are not, so that you can find a kind, loving partner. Even after the pain you endured, real love is possible. In fact, because of what you went through, your new love could be better than you ever imagined.

Highlights

Three steps to protect yourself from sociopaths
Why internal healing is so important
Lovefraud's 3 rules of dating
10 tips for dating with awareness
Staying safe with online dating.

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"Love Fraud and How to Avoid It"

Most of us believe everybody just wants to be loved. Unfortunately, this isn't totally true. "There are people in the world who pursue romantic relationships not for love, but for exploitation," says Donna Andersen, author of Lovefraud.com. "These people are sociopaths."

No, Andersen explains, sociopaths are not all deranged serial killers. But they are social predators. Perhaps 12 percent of the population, she says, have serious personality disorders that make them unsuitable—even dangerous—as romantic partners. In the beginning of a relationship, however, these people seem to be charismatic, charming, affectionate and sexy—until their targets are hooked. Then everything changes.

Andersen learned about sociopaths the hard way—by marrying one. Her ex-husband defrauded her of $227,000, cheated with six women in two years, fathered a child with one of them, and then committed bigamy. Her story is so outrageous that she was featured in two television shows: "Who the (Bleep) Did I Marry?" and "My Life is a Lifetime Movie."

In 2005, Andersen launched Lovefraud.com to educate the public about social predators, and the Lovefraud blog has evolved into a healing community of survivors. She also wrote "Red Flags of Love Fraud—10 signs you're dating a sociopath," and the accompanying "Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook."

Usually sociopaths begin their deception and manipulation during the high school and college years, she says. Lovefraud's research shows that people who become involved with them at a young age suffer more serious harm—including physical abuse, psychological damage and thoughts of suicide—than those who meet the predators later in life. That's why students need to know that these disordered individuals exist.

The good news is that the dire consequences of love fraud are totally preventable— if students understand the warning signs. Based on her own experience and the thousands of cases she's collected, Andersen explains how people get hooked into these involvements, and how to get out of them. Dr. Liane Leedom, a psychiatrist who also knows about sociopathic relationships first-hand, consulted on the material.

"Love Fraud and How to Avoid It" covers:

• What is a sociopath? How many are there?
• Male and female sociopaths
• 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Dangers of online dating
• Healthy dating relationships
• Abusive dating relationships
• Why these relationships are addictive
• How to break up with an abuser
• Protecting yourself from sociopaths

"Arming students with this information," Andersen says, "will enable them to recognize exploiters and avoid interactions that could irrevocably damage their lives."

"Love Fraud and How to Avoid It" is appropriate for college and high school students. Andersen also offers a professional development program, "Sociopathy Awareness for Staff and Counselors." For more information, contact Terry Kelly, program manager, at [email protected], or 609-945-1384. Or, visit www.lovefraud.com/education.Show More

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10 señales de que estás saliendo con un sociópata

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10 señales de que estás saliendo con un sociópata

De Donna Andersen, autora de Lovefraud.com

Tienes una relación amorosa que comenzó como un torbellino de atención y afecto, pero ahora te atormenta el temor de que algo no va bien.

O has tenido una relación que era verbal, emocional, financiera o incluso físicamente abusiva. Esa persona ya se ha ido, pero sigues sin comprender cómo te engañó, y tienes miedo de que vuelva a suceder.

O alguien a quien quieres tiene una relación sentimental con una pareja que te tiene preocupado. No puedes entender cómo se involucró tu amigo o familiar, y por qué él o ella no lo deja.

En todas estas situaciones, la persona que causa los problemas puede ser un sociópata. No, los sociópatas no son todos asesinos en serie trastornados, pero son depredadores sociales que viven su vida explotando a los demás.

El libro, "Alertas rojas de estafa amorosa — 10 señales de que estás saliendo con un sociópata" revela, por primera vez, las tácticas de los depredadores sociales que buscan relaciones sentimentales no por amor, sino para explotación. Este libro explica cómo los sociópatas seducen a sus víctimas, por qué es difícil escapar de las relaciones, y cómo las personas pueden protegerse.

Explica exactamente lo que es un sociópata. En él se esbozan la 10 principales señales de alerta de la conducta sociopática, y lo que debes hacer si las ves.

Aprenderás:

• ¿Por qué los sociópatas parecen ser tu alma gemela
• El riesgo real de las citas por Internet
• ¿Cómo seducen los sociópatas?
• ¿Por qué el "solo sexo" es una fantasía?
• ¿Por qué puedes hacerte adicto a un sociópata
• Cómo poner fin a la relación con seguridad
• Cómo protegerse de los depredadores humanos

Donna Andersen es la autora de "Alertas Rojas de Estafa Amorosa," un libro basado en su experiencia personal y en la experiencia de miles de personas que relatan sus relaciones con sociópatas en dos encuestas por Internet.

Andersen también se ha inspirado en el trabajo de los mejores expertos en la materia para analizar cómo seducen los sociópatas a sus víctimas y por qué las personas caen en el engaño y la manipulación.

Este libro es la explicación más completa de los sociópatas en las relaciones personales que se ha dado jamás.Te dice, en un lenguaje claro y sencillo, cómo detectar y evitar a los sociópatas. Si ya has quedado atrapada en la red de uno estos depredadores sociales, el libro te mostrará que no eres la única persona.

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Red Flags of Love Fraud
10 signs you're dating a sociopath

This book that reveals, for the first time, the tactics of social predators who pursue romantic relationships not for love, but for exploitation. It explains how sociopaths seduce their targets, why it's hard to escape the relationships, and how people can protect themselves.

Millions of sociopaths live among us, and no, they are not all serial killers. Donna Andersen, author of Lovefraud.com , first wrote the book in English. It has helped thousands of people recognize that their partners are disordered.

These are the relationships from hell. They usually start out as a whirlwind of love and romance, and then, sooner or later, spiral down into lies, cheating, manipulation and abuse. They are the worst relationships you can imagine, and they are totally preventable if you know how to read the warning signs. "Alertas rojas de estafa amorosa" explains the warning signs.Show More

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