Donna Andersen helps you spot, escape and recover from sociopaths
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How EFT Tapping helps you accept the reality of what is
You want to ignore, escape or bury the reality of your experience. But ...accepting reality is exactly what you must do in order to move forward.
Tonight, I’ll explain the first step of healing after the sociopath, which is accepting the reality of what is.
Now, this DOES NOT mean that whatever you’ve been through is acceptable — especially if you’ve been deceived and betrayed by a sociopath (narcissist, psychopath).
Evil is never acceptable.
It DOES MEAN accepting that what happened did indeed happen:
• Yes, the sociopath manipulated and exploited you — on purpose.
• Yes, people who should have loved and cared about you did not.
• Yes, you were deeply wounded and perhaps traumatized by your experiences.
The normal human response to the disappointments and tragedies of life is resistance.
• We don’t want to believe that our partner, family member, friend or even a random stranger could be so heartless.
• We want that person — or someone, anyone — to right how we were wronged.
• We obsess about what should have happened.
But, as the saying goes, “What resists, persists.” The longer we dwell on resistance to the reality of our situation, the longer we stay stuck.
At the end of my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.
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Also:
1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar
2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills
3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com
4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/
5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/
6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:
• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/
7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.
https://education.lovefraud.com/
8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/
9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:
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10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.
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