Description
Donna Andersen is an expert on sociopaths and narcissists in relationships. She can help you identify if your partner, family member, work colleague or friend is disordered, and offer you practical advice on what to do — how to escape, or if that isn’t possible, how to cope.
Donna learned about sociopaths the hard way—by marrying one. James Alwyn Montgomery, originally of Sydney, Australia, met her and quickly proposed in 1996. In two and a half years, Montgomery defrauded her of $227,000, cheated on her with at least six different women, fathered a child with one of them, and then, 10 days after Donna left him, married the mother of the child. It was the second time he committed bigamy.
Because of her experience, in 2005 Donna founded Lovefraud to teach people how to recognize and recover from sociopaths — people who could be diagnosed with antisocial, narcissistic, borderline, histrionic or psychopathic personality disorder. Over the years she has collected more than 10,000 cases and helped thousands of people. She’s written eight books:
- Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers
- Understanding the Sociopath
- Seduced by a Sociopath
- Dealing with a Sociopath
- Recovery from the Sociopath
- Red Flags of Love Fraud—10 signs you’re dating a sociopath
- Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
- Love Fraud—How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan
Donna founded Lovefraud Education and Recovery. The nonprofit offers online webinars to help survivors and therapists spot, escape and recover from narcissists, antisocials, psychopaths and other manipulators. She is co-author of two scientific papers and has presented research to the Society for the Scientific Study of Psychopathy.
Donna has appeared on television shows including Insight in Australia, ABC News 20/20, Who the Bleep Did I Marry?, My Life is a Lifetime Movie, Handsome Devils and The Ricki Lake Show. She has been interviewed for multiple radio shows, print articles and web posts.
According to expert estimates, there may be 30 million adult sociopaths in the United States — and millions more around the world. These people are dangerous to your emotions, health, physical safety and finances. They can be avoided, if you know what to look for. Unfortunately, most of us don’t know the warning signs, and end up entangled with them. Donna can help you escape and recover — and yes, recovery is possible. Donna met her new husband in 2001, and they’ve been together ever since.
Donna offers personal consultations via phone, Zoom or Skype.
A woman who called for advice wrote:
Thank you again Donna for talking with me this evening. I feel so much relief from that conversation. You helped me sort through much of the confusion. I will surely be on your website regularly checking out articles and posts.
One man from the United States who has spoken to Donna on several occasions says:
I had the good fortune of finding Donna Andersen to help in my struggle with sociopathic relationships. I took advantage of her consultation services and she has helped focus my awareness and understanding of where and why my troubles originate.
I can’t say enough about how she’s helped me time and again, despite the fact I’ve failed so often to follow through on her sound advice. Once, when I wrote and told her I’d blocked numbers in my “No Contact” effort, I insisted she let me donate to her cause. She did, and soon after I broke the NC stipulation she’d imposed. Since then she has refused my repeated efforts to donate to her cause until I maintain the NC.
This fact alone has shown me her integrity in looking out for my best interests. She tops the chart in helping me understand, be aware of and repair the damage caused by sociopaths.
Donna offers personal consultations Monday through Saturday, Eastern Time (the same time zone as New York City in the United States). Hours are:
- Monday, Wednesday, Thursday: 2 – 7 pm
- Tuesday, Friday: 2 – 4 pm
- Saturday: 10 am – 1 pm
You can book your appointment and pay by credit card above. If you need a different time, please call 609-945-1384, or send an e-mail to donna@lovefraud.com.
Linda (verified owner) –
I appreciate speaking with Donna about my experience. It is essential to talk with someone who has an understanding of sociopaths. Even better if they have lived it. Most trained therapists do not grasp how evil it is to be in a relationship with a person with no conscience. Rather than advice, I need a good listener to assist in my recovery. I am grateful she was able to honor my need without putting an agenda on me. I highly recommend Donna to anyone who has suffered with a sociopath.
Jocelyn (verified owner) –
It’s so helpful to talk to someone who has been there and “gets it”.
Jasmin (verified owner) –
You will not meet anyone with more knowledge and wisdom re: these aliens, that is what I call them, than Donna. Her books are a must read, and if you can, speak with her personally. I promise you will have a better understanding of what is happening in your life and how to make it stop. This is a process, as with most things in life…don’t waste your time, get help from Donna Andersen, she GETS it and has heard it all. This can be a life/death situation, if you don’t know what you are doing. Please, get the help you need to get rid of your spath. You WILL survive, but you will need help and Donna is there for you.
Annette Johnston (verified owner) –
Donna was very insightful and everything made sense after speaking with her. I appreciate how non-judgmental she is. I highly recommend her.
Anonymous (verified owner) –
I had no idea that what I experienced was not unique. It gave me a sense of relief and helped with my healing process.
Donna C. (verified owner) –
Donna confirmed what I desperately needed to hear about my ex and helped me take the first steps to moving on after a shocking discovery. Most people thought he was a sociopath but I wanted someone with actual experience with one to confirm so I didn’t give him any benefit of the doubt.
Matthew S (verified owner) –
Down to earth, real advice. Donna has helped me feel grounded to make more decisions for the next chapter of my life. Thank you.