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Donna Andersen helps you spot, escape and recover from sociopaths

Read the annotated script for, “How to protect yourself from sociopaths.”

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7 ways to release heartbreak and change your life

Why do we keep ending up in the same situation with the same heartbreak? One reason is because we all have set points — internal settings for mental, emotional and ...biological states.

Tonight I’ll explain that our natural predisposition is to keep returning to our established emotional and biological baselines. That’s why we feel stuck.

I’ve spoken to many survivors of sociopaths (narcissists, psychopaths) who know on an intellectual level, without a doubt, that a certain individual is bad for them. Still, they feel drawn to the person and can’t break away. And then when they get rid of one bad actor, they get involved with another one just like the last one.

But it’s possible to change our set points and therefore change our lives. EFT Tapping can help.
Following my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.


MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Appointments and healing packages — for a limited time save an additional 10% with the coupon code: Youtube
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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7 ways to release heartbreak and change your life
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7 ways to release heartbreak and change your life
Why do we keep ending up in the same situation with the same ...
Why do we keep ending up in the same situation with the same heartbreak? One reason is because we all have set points — internal settings for mental, emotional and ...biological states.

Tonight I’ll explain that our natural predisposition is to keep returning to our established emotional and biological baselines. That’s why we feel stuck.

I’ve spoken to many survivors of sociopaths (narcissists, psychopaths) who know on an intellectual level, without a doubt, that a certain individual is bad for them. Still, they feel drawn to the person and can’t break away. And then when they get rid of one bad actor, they get involved with another one just like the last one.

But it’s possible to change our set points and therefore change our lives. EFT Tapping can help.
Following my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.


MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Appointments and healing packages — for a limited time save an additional 10% with the coupon code: Youtube
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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Why do narcissists, psychopaths and other disordered individuals lie, cheat, manipulate and exploit? Psychology experts typically tell us that they engage in antisocial behavior because they lack empathy and impulse ...control. In a new video series, the Lovefraud author Dr. Liane Leedom explains why they are wrong.

The series is called Antisocial Motivation. Each month, Dr. Liane Leedom, a psychiatrist and professor of counseling at the University of Bridgeport, explains an aspect of her research on human social behavioral systems and how they are affected by psychopathy.

In this first episode, Dr. Leedom provides an overview of her concept: Psychopathic behavior can only be explained by motivational theory. Humans have four social behavioral systems — attachment, caregiving, sexual and dominance. Understanding how they are influenced by psychopathy helps survivors realize that they were never responsible for the abusive behavior that they endured.

You can read Dr. Leedom’s chapter here:

Psychopathy: A Behavioral Systems Approach

https://cdn.intechopen.com/pdfs/56508.pdf

Timeline

00:55 Goal of this series on Antisocial Motivation
01:54 Why survivors of narcissistic abuse feel confused
04:48 Sociopaths and their power motive
06:36 DSM diagnoses vs. trait scales
10:41 Why empathy deficit does not explain behavior
13:42 Four human social motivation systems
18:08 Understanding psychopaths’ desire for power
21:05 Behavioral systems include hormones like testosterone
21:54 Insights from animal research
24:36 What differentiates us from chimpanzees: Caring
29:34 Remove sociopaths’ power to prevent abuse
35:08 The role of evolution in creating psychopaths
39:42 Skills Training Program helps survivors overcome trauma
42:36 Audience Q and A


MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Appointments and healing packages — for a limited time save an additional 10% with the coupon code: Youtube
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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If you’ve spent 20, 30 or even more years with a sociopath, you ...
If you’ve spent 20, 30 or even more years with a sociopath, you probably feel like the life has been sucked out of you. But I assure you, even after ...years of narcissistic abuse, EFT Tapping can help you recover.

I’m making this video in response to a request from a Lovefraud Live! viewer. She posted the following question:

“Would like to know how tapping would help the effects of having lived with a sociopathic husband for 30 years?”

Yes, EFT Tapping can help, even after all that time. Tapping while you bring a painful experience to mind re-opens the memory and drains the pain away. You still remember what happened, but it doesn’t upset you like before. This allows you to shift your perspective, which means you can change your life.
Following my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.

For more information on the concepts discussed in this video, read:
“What Does Energy Have to Do With Energy Psychology?” by David Feinstein, Ph.D.

https://energytapping.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/What_Does_Energy_Have_to_Do_with_EP.pdf



MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Appointments and healing packages — for a limited time save an additional 10% with the coupon code: Youtube
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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Wow! Internet con artists sure are slick. I was almost scammed on Facebook Marketplace last weekend while selling a few vintage dresses. I’m sharing this story so you can see ...how easy it is to get caught up in a scammer’s manipulation.

I’m Donna Andersen, author of Lovefraud.com, host of the True Lovefraud Stories podcast and a certified Clinical EFT Tapping Practitioner.

As you know, I am extremely well-informed about psychopaths and their tactics. The scammers used all the standard con artist tricks. Yet the ploy was difficult to see while I was in the middle of it.

I’ll tell you her story. Then I’ll answer your questions.

If you want to see the text messages, go to my story on Lovefraud.com.

https://lovefraud.com/i-was-almost-scammed-on-facebook-marketplace/



MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Appointments and healing packages
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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The allegations in this story are breathtaking — tragedy, illness, desperation, manipulation, flying monkeys, betrayal, hopefully a hero, and courage. The case hasn’t been proven yet, but if it is, it will demonstrate once again that absolutely anyone can be swindled.

Marianne Flippo, age 49, claimed in court filings that Gregg Starr, a male escort with ice-blue eyes and six-pack abs, professed his love for her in an attempt to swindle $10 million. He succeeded in getting $5.95 million, she said in the lawsuit, and she wanted it back.

I’ll tell you about her lawsuit. Then I’ll answer your questions.


MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Appointments and healing packages
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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In last week’s Lovefraud Live show, I talked about oxytocin. This specific molecule in your brain and body had a lot to do with why you got in trouble with the abuser. Tonight I’m going to tell you more about oxytocin. Why? Because surprisingly, the same molecule helps you recover from the devastation.

Why am I talking about biology and neuroscience on Lovefraud? To help you understand that biological imperatives have a lot to do with why you got involved, or stayed involved, with the sociopath. And, to inspire you to use the same biology and neuroscience to recover from the trauma.

Following my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.


MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Appointments and healing packages — for a limited time save an additional 10% with the coupon code: Youtube
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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Invariably, once we realize we've been conned by a psychopath, this person has lied to us from the very beginning, and we fell for all of it, we ask why? ...Why did we believe? Why did we trust?

Tonight, I will explain why we went along with the psychopath’s program. The short answer is that we did what we, as social animals, are biologically designed to do.

Human beings have evolved over millennia to live in community, and trust is the glue that holds us together.

I will discuss the work of Paul J. Zak. Zak spent 10 years researching a brain chemical called oxytocin and its role in human behavior. He says oxytocin inspires trust; trust is connected to morality; and morality is connected to the survival of the human race.

Unfortunately, oxytocin can also influence our decision to trust the psychopath, which is usually a bad idea.

Following my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.

Link to watch Paul Zak's TED talk on oxytocin:
https://lovefraud.com/oxytocin-trust-fall-psychopaths/


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Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
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Appointments and healing packages — for a limited time save an additional 10% with the coupon code: Youtube
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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The sociopath cries at movies – does he have feelings?
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The sociopath cries at movies – does he have feelings?
Many sociopaths are great actors and can turn on tears at will. You ...
Many sociopaths are great actors and can turn on tears at will. You think the person is showing human emotions, when what they’re really doing is pretending.

A Lovefraud reader once ...
asked me, “If the sociopath cries at movies, does that mean he has feelings?” She also asked about the emptiness of disordered people.

Before responding to her questions, I’ll first explain that psychopaths, narcissists and antisocials are not all the same. There is a lot of variation, even among people who have personality disorders.

Then I’ll answer her questions. I’ll also answer your questions.



MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Appointments and healing packages — for a limited time save an additional 10% with the coupon code: Youtube
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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Parents: 9 reasons why your kid fell for a sociopath
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Parents: 9 reasons why your kid fell for a sociopath
This video is addressed specifically to parents who realize that their ...
This video is addressed specifically to parents who realize that their young adult or adult son or daughter is romantically involved with a sociopath.

Perhaps you've had your suspicions for ...
a while. Perhaps you've even tried to tell your kid that the partner was no good, but he or she wouldn't listen to you.

Now everything has collapsed, and you can't understand why your son or daughter didn't see it coming.

Please understand that sociopaths are professional con artists, and they are really, really good at what they do. In fact, they spend their entire lives perfecting their craft.

Tonight I’ll explain 9 reasons why your son or daughter fell for a sociopath. Then I’ll answer your questions.

Anyone who has themselves wondered how they got into this mess will also find this video helpful.



MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Appointments and healing packages — for a limited time save an additional 10% with the coupon code: Youtube
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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The sociopath’s 8 isolation tactics
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The sociopath’s 8 isolation tactics
No matter what they may say to you, what sociopaths really want is to ...
No matter what they may say to you, what sociopaths really want is to control you. One of their methods of control is the isolation campaign — keeping you from ...the people you love. But from their flowery words in the beginning, you'd never know it.

In the beginning, sociopaths want to be with you all the time. They proclaim that they are so wrapped up in you that they can't bear to be apart, and it feels flattering to be so desired. Slowly, this morphs into the sociopath always wanting to know where you are, which morphs into jealousy if you spend time with anyone else, including your family and long-time friends.

What’s going on? The sociopath is establishing control over you. The key, for them, is to separate you from the people you love — and who love you.

Sociopaths employ many tactics to do this. Tonight I’ll explain the sociopath’s 8 isolation tactics, and what to do if you are experiencing them.



MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Appointments and healing packages — for a limited time save an additional 10% with the coupon code: Youtube
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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10 subtypes of psychopathy
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10 subtypes of psychopathy
If you try to fill out a psychopathy checklist, and some items fit the ...
If you try to fill out a psychopathy checklist, and some items fit the person who is tormenting you while others don’t — well, that person could still be disordered.

Tonight ...
I’ll explain 10 subtypes of psychopathy, based on the work of Dr. Theodore Millon. He identified 10 subtypes of psychopathy.

Millon’s work does much to explain why some psychopaths are charming while others have no social skills.

It explains why some psychopaths are meticulous about their health and appearance, whereas others, like my ex, are overweight, diabetic and won’t take basic steps to care for themselves.

It can help you understand why some psychopaths plot deliberate, complex schemes and others act on impulse with no regard for consequences.

Here's the key point: personality disorders are complex.



MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Learn how Donna can help you — claim your FREE 15-minute Discovery call
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Appointments and healing packages — for a limited time save an additional 10% with the coupon code: Youtube
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/heal-your-life-with-donna-andersen/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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