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Donna Andersen helps you spot, escape and recover from sociopaths

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11 brazen lies from my sociopathic ex

All sociopaths lie. They tell big lies, little lies, stupid lies. But what’s really shocking is the brazen lies — lies so big and dramatic that you would never suspect ...anyone would have the nerve to make such statements if they weren’t true. Ha!

Tonight, I’ll tell you about 11 brazen lies from my sociopathic ex-husband. These are just a few of his more memorable deceptions. There were many, many more.

I met Montgomery online back in 1996. This was when online dating was in its infancy. Everyone was using “Love at AOL,” where you could post text but no photos or video. Montgomery described himself as a “Sean Connery look-alike,” which was his first lie.

The lies kept coming. But this was two years before Google launched, so there was no real way to check out his story. Unfortunately, it wasn't until later that I learned they were lies. So here are 11 brazen lies from my sociopathic ex

At the end of my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.

MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/

Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness, EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


5. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


6. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


7. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


8. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


9. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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11 brazen lies from my sociopathic ex
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11 brazen lies from my sociopathic ex
All sociopaths lie. They tell big lies, little lies, stupid lies. But ...
All sociopaths lie. They tell big lies, little lies, stupid lies. But what’s really shocking is the brazen lies — lies so big and dramatic that you would never suspect ...anyone would have the nerve to make such statements if they weren’t true. Ha!

Tonight, I’ll tell you about 11 brazen lies from my sociopathic ex-husband. These are just a few of his more memorable deceptions. There were many, many more.

I met Montgomery online back in 1996. This was when online dating was in its infancy. Everyone was using “Love at AOL,” where you could post text but no photos or video. Montgomery described himself as a “Sean Connery look-alike,” which was his first lie.

The lies kept coming. But this was two years before Google launched, so there was no real way to check out his story. Unfortunately, it wasn't until later that I learned they were lies. So here are 11 brazen lies from my sociopathic ex

At the end of my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.

MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/

Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness, EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


5. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


6. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


7. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


8. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


9. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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7 brutal ways sociopaths make demands
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7 brutal ways sociopaths make demands
Sociopaths view you, and all other people, as objects to be used. They ...
Sociopaths view you, and all other people, as objects to be used. They want something, and they believe that your purpose in life is to deliver it. But how, exactly, ...do they get you to do what they want?

Tonight, I’ll explain 7 brutal ways that sociopaths make demands so that you end up doing what they want.

In the beginning of your involvement, sociopaths typically sweet talk you into going along with what they want. They work to convince you that it’s a really, really good idea, or it will be really, really fun, or they really, really need it. Then, when you agree, they can’t stop thanking you.

But once sociopaths feel that you are sufficiently under their control, that all stops. The niceties go away and they simply expect you to meet their demands. Here are 7 typical strategies.

At the end of my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.

MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness, EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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How sociopaths use fear to control you
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How sociopaths use fear to control you
Sociopaths, including antisocials, narcissists and psychopaths, are ...
Sociopaths, including antisocials, narcissists and psychopaths, are expert exploiters. How do they get you to do what they want? One of their go-to strategies is creating fear.

Dr. Liane Leedom, a ...
professor of psychiatry and counseling at the University of Bridgeport, will explain how sociopaths use fear to control you. Feel free to ask questions!

MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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5 warning signs that your online love is a scammer
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5 warning signs that your online love is a scammer
More than 350 million people used dating apps worldwide in 2024, ...
More than 350 million people used dating apps worldwide in 2024, according to a recent industry report. What the report didn’t say is that many people who are supposedly searching ...for love online are actually searching for targets to exploit.

Tonight, I’ll explain 5 warning signs that your online love is a scammer. If you see these warning signs, cut off contact with the person immediately.

Tinder is the most popular dating app on the planet, accounting for 35% of global downloads. The second most popular app is Bumble.

Yes, it is possible to find love online. An industry report says that 12% of people currently in a romantic relationship met online.

It’s wonderful to hear the words, “I love you.” But if the words are coming from someone you recently met online, maybe what they really mean is, “I’d love to exploit you.”

The FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) collects data on all types of online crime. According to its most recent report, 859,532 internet crime complaints were filed in 2024. This were actually fewer claims filed than in 2023, but the dollar losses were much higher.
Victims reported a staggering $16.6 billion in financial losses in 2024. The bulk of the losses came from fraud.

The report covers all Inernet crime, such as identity theft and ransomware. One big category was confidence and romance scams, with 17,910 complaints. These are situations in which people believe they are in a relationship — family, friendly or romantic — and are tricked into sending money, personal and financial information, or valuable items to the perpetrator. Victims reported losses in these cons totaling more than $672 million.

Could this happen to you? Yes, if you’re not careful. Here are five warning signs that your online love is a scammer.

At the end of my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.


MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness, EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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7 classic love bombing strategies
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7 classic love bombing strategies
Almost everyone who is targeted by a sociopath in a romantic ...
Almost everyone who is targeted by a sociopath in a romantic relationship experiences love bombing —over-the-top attention and affection. You need to know how to spot it.

Tonight, I’ll explain the ...
warning signs that your exciting new romantic partner is love bombing you. I’ll also identify 7 classic love-bombing strategies.

So is it love — or is it love bombing?

I discuss this in my book, Red Flags of Love Fraud — 10 signs you’re dating a sociopath. Red Flag #4 is love bombing.

When sociopaths in full seduction mode, they want to be with you all the time. If they're not physically with you, they want to be in constant communication with you.

They proclaim their love — quickly, frequently and persistently. Most of us interpret this ceaseless devotion as an indication that our new partner is truly smitten.

But it's not love — it's love bombing.

Unlike true love, love bombing is insincere. It is not an expression of your new partner's deepest feelings; it is a strategy to achieve an objective.

The objective is winning you over, so that you give the sociopath what he or she wants.

At the end of my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.

MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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Understanding borderline personality disorder
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Understanding borderline personality disorder
All exploitative personality disorders are confusing — especially ...
All exploitative personality disorders are confusing — especially borderline. Some people diagnosed with borderline personality disorder are violent, and others aren’t. Some women diagnosed as borderline may actually be antisocial. ...Others may be traumatized.
Dr. Liane Leedom, a professor of psychiatry and counseling at the University of Bridgeport, will explain the nuances and contradictions of borderline personality disorder. Feel free to ask questions!

MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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“Expert” is clueless about coercive control
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“Expert” is clueless about coercive control
Coercive control is a pattern of assault, threats, humiliation, ...
Coercive control is a pattern of assault, threats, humiliation, intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish or frighten the victim. Where does this behavior come from?

If you’ve ...
tangled with a sociopath, there’s a good chance that you experienced coercive control. Unfortunately, you may have had a hard time getting people to believe you. Tonight, I’ll explain that sometimes even so-called experts don’t really understand this behavior.

LINKS TO INFORMATION MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO

Dr. Emma Kaz article: “She didn’t ‘pick wrong.’ Society failed by creating millions of abusive men.

https://dremmakatz.substack.com/p/she-didnt-pick-wrong-society-failed?utm_source=substack&publication_id=1199193&post_id=153314123&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&utm_campaign=email-share&triggerShare=true&isFreemail=true&r=44sq3b&triedRedirect=true

Women’s Aid Charity web page on coercive control

https://womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/coercive-control/

Lovefraud article: “Asking the wrong question about coercive controllers”

https://lovefraud.com/asking-the-wrong-question-about-coercive-controllers/


MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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Sociopaths exploit everyone in their lives
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Sociopaths exploit everyone in their lives
Here’s a fact that many people have a hard time wrapping their brains ...
Here’s a fact that many people have a hard time wrapping their brains around: Sociopaths exploit everyone in their lives. Anyone who spends more than five minutes in their company ...will be manipulated and used.
Okay, I might be exaggerating a bit about the five minutes. But sociopaths do exploit everyone of significance in their lives. Tonight I’ll explain why and how they do it.

MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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Sociopaths as Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde
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Sociopaths as Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde
Sociopaths often seem to be two different people. One person is ...
Sociopaths often seem to be two different people. One person is loving, caring and attentive, the other treats you like trash. It’s their Jekyll and Hyde personality.

Tonight, I’ll explain how ...
sociopaths behave as both Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, as both good and evil.

At the end of my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions. Please subscribe to
MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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Sociopaths, mind control and gaslighting
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Sociopaths, mind control and gaslighting
Sociopaths seem to take over our lives. How do they do it? Through ...
Sociopaths seem to take over our lives. How do they do it? Through mind control and gaslighting.

Tonight, I’ll interview Dr. Liane Leedom, a psychiatrist and professor of psychology and counseling ...
at the University of Bridgeport. At the end of our discussion, we’ll answer your questions.

MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD


Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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28 tips to protect senior relatives from sociopaths
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28 tips to protect senior relatives from sociopaths
Sociopaths do not burn out. Even as senior citizens, they keep ...
Sociopaths do not burn out. Even as senior citizens, they keep exploiting and manipulating — the only difference is their victims are also older. So if your relatives get targeted, ...how can you protect them?

Tonight, I’ll offer 28 detailed tips on protecting your senior relatives — or anyone else, for that matter — from being exploited by sociopaths. At the end of my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.

MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD

Read the tips in this article on Lovefraud.com
https://lovefraud.com/advice-for-protecting-elderly-relatives-from-sociopaths-and-gold-diggers/

Check out my book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers.”
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/


Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/


Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/


Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


8. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


9. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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3 reasons for stupid sociopath behavior
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3 reasons for stupid sociopath behavior
Here on Lovefraud, we often talk about how evil, callous and deceitful ...
Here on Lovefraud, we often talk about how evil, callous and deceitful sociopaths are. If you’ve been involved with a sociopath for any length of time, you certainly have your ...own horror stories. Tonight, I’m going to focus on something that doesn’t get a lot of attention.

Tonight, I’ll explain three reasons why sociopaths engage in stupid behavior. At the end of my short presentation, I’ll answer your questions.

MORE INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FROM LOVEFRAUD

Download “The Mask of Sanity” by Hervey Cleckley
https://education.lovefraud.com/mask-of-sanity/

Talk to Donna: Consultations, Guided Mindfulness EFT Tapping and Reiki
https://lovefraud.com/talk-to-donna/

Is your partner a sociopath? Get the exclusive Lovefraud checklist: https://lovefraud.com/is-your-partner-a-sociopath/

Subscribe to the Lovefraud newsletter that comes out every Wednesday:
https://lovefraud.com/subscribe-to-lovefraud/

Also:

1 FREE webinar — Your first step towards real recovery from narcissistic abuse and trauma
https://lovefraud.com/freewebinar


2. Skills for recovery from narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and toxic stress, presented by Dr. Liane Leedom
https://lovefraud.com/skills


3. Listen to the True Lovefraud Stories podcast anywhere you get your podcasts or here:
https://podcasts.lovefraud.com


4. My first book is, "Love Fraud - How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan." Printed books are now FREE! Just pay shipping & handling. It is also available as an audio book. As I tell my story, you'll learn why the sociopath came into your life. More info here:
https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/love-fraud/


5. Get my e-books, including the new "Best of the Lovefraud Blog" Series:
• Understanding the Sociopath
• Seduced by a Sociopath
• Dealing with a Sociopath
• Recovery from the Sociopath
https://lovefraud.com/product/best-of-the-lovefraud-blog-all-4-books-ebook-or-softcover/


6. If you want to know if you're in a romantic relationship with a sociopath, these books will help you figure it out, and tell you how to protect yourself:

• Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 signs you're dating a sociopath
• Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook
https://lovefraud.com/product/red-flags-of-love-fraud-and-workbook/


7. My book, “Senior Sociopaths – How to recognize and escape lifelong abusers,” is available. Here’s more information:

https://lovefraud.com/anderly-publishing/senior-sociopaths-how-to-recognize-and-escape-lifelong-abusers/


8. Lovefraud Continuing Education offers webinars for survivors and therapists.

https://education.lovefraud.com/


9. If you’d like to help the Lovefraud Education and Recovery Nonprofit in our mission of educating others, make a tax-deductible contribution at:

https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=5SSJKW2C6RAQA


10. If you want to share your story about your involvement with a sociopath, fill out the Lovefraud Survey.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Lovefraud_media_interviews
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