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O. N. Ward says 'Don't feed the animals'.

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How to recognize and recover from the sociopaths – narcissists in your life › Forums › Lovefraud Community Forum – General › O. N. Ward says 'Don't feed the animals'.

  • This topic has 39 replies, 4 voices, and was last updated 6 years, 4 months ago by Sunnygal.
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    • July 18, 2017 at 1:45 pm #41520
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      She is referring to the spaths.

    • July 18, 2017 at 1:46 pm #41522
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      This is such a good description!!

    • July 18, 2017 at 9:33 pm #41536
      Madelaine
      Participant

      Sunnygal, for NC reasons I have to shut down my gmail account. I’ll set up another one with a different name and get back soon. Thanks for all your help and support. I’m not in a good place right now.

    • July 18, 2017 at 10:19 pm #41537
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Madelaine Sorry to hear that. Take good care.

    • July 20, 2017 at 7:25 pm #41565
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      I think this can apply to spaths reading lovefraud too. Don’t feed them with long descriptions of emotional pain.

    • July 21, 2017 at 12:01 am #41567
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Madelaine Hope you get back soon. You can open another gmail quickly.

    • July 28, 2017 at 12:13 pm #41654
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Madelaine I hope you are alright.

    • July 30, 2017 at 11:52 am #41684
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      I like her visual.

    • August 27, 2017 at 8:10 am #41981
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Good sign.

    • September 7, 2017 at 4:33 pm #42125
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Dont react/show emotion.

    • October 20, 2017 at 10:34 am #42641
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Good reminder.

    • November 5, 2017 at 4:31 pm #42784
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      O.N. is wise.

      • November 6, 2017 at 8:39 pm #42792
        cherb6
        Participant

        Very and of course the way we feed them is by breaking no contact and allowing them to contact us. Then when they trigger us and we react, they feel satiated and fattened on our negative response.

    • November 6, 2017 at 10:25 pm #42796
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      cherb6 yes, we feed them by reacting. That is why she says NO EMOTION.

    • November 13, 2017 at 7:30 pm #42842
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      NO CONTACT/NO EMOTION.

    • December 5, 2017 at 9:04 pm #43067
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      yes, don’t feed them.

    • December 11, 2017 at 9:07 pm #43172
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Reacting is feeding them.

    • December 23, 2017 at 4:48 pm #43283
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Reacting is feeding.

    • January 2, 2018 at 6:41 pm #43344
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      NO EMOTION.

    • January 15, 2018 at 12:11 am #43531
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Don’t, don’t, don’t.

    • January 23, 2018 at 10:33 am #43683
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Madelaine used to say don’t feed them here.

    • January 27, 2018 at 12:27 am #43771
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Thanks O.N.

    • January 27, 2018 at 5:00 pm #43791
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Good one O.N.

    • February 6, 2018 at 12:31 pm #43983
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Very very important.

    • March 4, 2018 at 12:56 am #44359
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Extremely important.

    • March 13, 2018 at 11:17 pm #44483
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      important every day.

    • April 5, 2018 at 3:48 pm #44990
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      good to remember.

    • April 9, 2018 at 10:41 am #45089
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      DO NOT

    • April 18, 2018 at 10:48 pm #45217
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      spot on!

    • April 23, 2018 at 5:33 pm #45253
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      right on.

    • May 3, 2018 at 12:25 am #45326
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      do not feed, do not react.

    • July 24, 2018 at 11:53 pm #46401
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      vERY right on by O.N. Ward

    • August 1, 2018 at 2:35 pm #46509
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      thanks so much to O.N.

    • August 11, 2018 at 12:52 pm #46651
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      absolutely spot on.

    • August 28, 2018 at 3:15 am #46822
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      thanks again to O.N.

    • September 3, 2018 at 3:48 pm #46886
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      very good reminder.

    • September 4, 2018 at 4:16 am #46887
      annamethew
      Participant

      very good sites.

    • September 14, 2018 at 3:18 pm #46988
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      like this alot.

    • September 20, 2018 at 10:19 pm #47044
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      can’t see this enough.

    • January 13, 2019 at 7:21 pm #48462
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      This is so important.

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