How to recognize and recover from the sociopaths – narcissists in your life › Forums › Sociopaths, narcissists, psychopaths as partners › I'm sorry I hurt you?
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January 30, 2018 at 7:48 am #43863kathleenkellyParticipant
I don’t know exactly what Dancing Dick is? Narc? Sociopath? A little of both? A detailed diagnosis does not matter. I do know that this man was incapable of feeling empathy, his emotions were flat- one dimensional (as if he were parroting others- rather than truly feeling emotions. He believed his own lies too. That was frustrating as hell.
He seemed to have enjoyed “deception.” He decieved others before he met me by stealing from them and using them. His felony charge says: Theft by deception. He was also thrown out of the US Navy for selling drugs. Of course I found this out after I married him.
Confronting him with “hard evidence” was bizzare. This man had the capacity to lie, blame shift, mimimize….right in your face- without breaking a sweat. Looking back, it seems surreal. It was mind boggling……and extremely destablizing. How do they do that? How do they lie straight in your face…….when you are standing there with solid evidence in your hand?
Dancing Dick took up with a “head janitor” woman he met before the ink on our divorce was dry. He is planning to marry her next month. She has a 20 year old daughter. Dancing Dick likes them young ….as his taste in porn is “barely legal.” Not my circus….not my monkeys! Janitor woman and her daughter are in for a ride. I kind of feel sorry for them.
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January 30, 2018 at 7:52 am #43864kathleenkellyParticipant
Oh….Dancing Dick did issue me a very weak “I’m sorry”- after I caught him voyeuring/sending unwanted lewd texts to the neighbor and plastering dick pics all over internet. Not to mention the web cam hoes….prostitutes and lies.
Since he said “I’m sorry”- I guess that makes everything ok in his narc/Spath mind? He was sorry for getting caught. Not for the trauma he caused in my life.
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January 30, 2018 at 8:22 am #43867takenmylifebackParticipant
I am so sorry your going through this
My sociopath cut me out 9f photos for my 5 year old to see and didn’t care and put us through so much Bull crap for 9 years he said sorry and acted like that was supposed to solve everything. They don’t have a conscience… They do what they want because the consequences don’t outweigh the “thrill”
Good luck and stay safe
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January 31, 2018 at 12:52 pm #43908Donna AndersenKeymaster
Never trust an apology from a sociopath. They don’t really mean it. They are just saying whatever they think will convince you to stay so that they can keep exploiting you.
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