How to recognize and recover from the sociopaths – narcissists in your life › Forums › Lovefraud Community Forum – General › The tables have been turned ladies!!!!
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May 17, 2019 at 5:01 am #52453lithobid74Participant
So I met a guy online on a dating site the other night, we online chatted for a bit, then texted for a bit,
then he rang me last night. He sounded drunk, but I wasn’t sure so I said nothing. He then said he had to shower and I said I had to go to the store and would ring him when I came home.I rang him, no answer, so I left a message. no reply.
No sweat, I thought.
This morning he texted me and said “Sorry, my battery was flat”.
Sorry, I don’t buy that, It would take you 5 minutes to plug your phone in and charge it a little to let me know it was flat.
I get a call from him this evening.
“Yeah I was a little tipsy when I rang you last night.”
My reply : ” I don’t appreciate the fact that you rang me on our first phone call tipsy, I deserve better than that.”
“Yeah but I was nervous because I was ringing you. And I’m a little tipsy now too, but being
tipsy is better than being drunk”Hello… does this sound familiar to anyone? Projection for dessert anyone??
My reply: “I was nervous too, but I didn’t feel the need to get tipsy to talk to you, it’s
a lack of respect. And I don’t have a lot of time for alcohol, my ex was an alcoholic.”“Are you calling me an Alcoholic?” (he didnt like that)
My reply: “No, I said my ex was an alcoholic.”
“Well, I just left an alcoholic too, they don’t have to be men, they can be women too,
and it was a woman, because I’m not gay.”My reply: “I need some time and space to work out what my next step is here. So I’m going to go now.
“Okay goodbye.”
And that ladies, is spotting a sociopath from 10 paces, I could smell it, I could sense it, and I saw him for what he was. And I closed the door on him before he could get inside my world.
Im sooo damn proud of myself!!!!!
- This topic was modified 5 years, 8 months ago by lithobid74.
- This topic was modified 5 years, 8 months ago by lithobid74.
- This topic was modified 5 years, 8 months ago by lithobid74.
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May 17, 2019 at 9:56 am #52462Donna AndersenKeymaster
Lithobid74: Good for you! Excellent!
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May 20, 2019 at 2:39 pm #52508corcorangirlParticipant
Great Work!!!!! Be so proud of yourself!!!! 💗
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