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September 8, 2020 at 1:32 am #63837sept4Participant
Found this fascinating article on psychopaths from the perspective of the CIA in the context of espionage.
Some excerpts:
Psychopaths are predators, approaching life with remorselessness, manipulation, pursuit of risk and excitement, and sharp, short- term tactical abilities alongside poor long-term and strategic planning. They frequently leave people with a positive first impression. Over time and with extended exposure, the initial impression wears away as people become aware of, or are directly victimized by, the psychopath. Before they are unmasked, psychopaths can cause severe damage to individuals and institutions.
Psychopaths cannot consistently follow laws, rules, and customs and do not understand the social neces- sity of doing so. They have limited capacity to experience the feelings of guilt, shame, and remorse that are the building blocks of mature conscience and moral functioning.
They are facile liars. In fact, many psychopaths take inordinate plea- sure in lying because perpetrating an effective “con” gives them a sense
of power and control over the person lied to, an emotional charge some- times termed “duping delight.” Their glee in manipulating others may be so acute that it overrides judgment and good sense, causing them to take foolish risks simply for the pleasure of temporarily conning others.Psychopaths are interpersonally exploitative. The condition is not infrequently associated with acute cruelty and the enjoyment of in- flicting pain on others. Harming or alarming others is, to psychopaths, its own reward. They pursue these pleasures with relish irrespective of the risks involved or the limited potential for gain.
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September 8, 2020 at 2:18 am #63838sept4Participant
Excerpt from a case study in the article of how a CIA employee was targeted and manipulated by a psychopath spy:
Only two days after Scranage’s arrival at her post in Africa in 1983, a State De- partment communicator introduced her to the man who subsequently became her handler. He quickly drew her into a sexual affair and—apparently working from an accurate assessment of Scranage’s susceptibility to psychological abuse—began to use a combination of affection and fear to increase his power over her and to elicit more and more sensitive information from her.
In addi- tion to establishing a sexual relationship with her and thus asserting physical control, Scranage’s handler also used verbal intimidation and threats to deter her from revealing what she had done to station personnel and to isolate her socially from sources of support in the station and community.
He systemati- cally assaulted her trust in CIA and her most senior manager, arguing that this manager had put her in her present position. Her handler also fed her dread
of being discovered and made veiled threats to harm those agency personnel and their family members with whom she appeared close.By such means, Scranage’s handler positioned himself as her preeminent authority figure and protector rather than the CIA and her managers and colleagues. In hindsight, she described herself as “a puppet” in his hands. After her arrest, Scranage consistently expressed profound remorse for her espionage.
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September 8, 2020 at 11:19 am #63840emilie18Participant
It is telling that even a highly trained CIA agent could be taken in by such a manipulative, self-serving sociopath. What hope do we “normal” humans have against their methods? I feel sorry for the deceived agent – she is probably serving time for her part in this. I would hope the CIA takes into account just what she was dealing with — this article seems to suggest they recognize and (hopefully) train against such behaviors. Thanks for sharing that – fascinating!
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September 8, 2020 at 11:19 am #63841emilie18Participant
I once read that a good majority of very successful business people have sociopathic tendencies – many are ruthless, driven, lack empathy or compassion and only consider what is best for themselves or the bottom line. This makes them highly competitive, non-emotional about hard decisions and able to envision results without worrying about the “little people” who might get hurt. Makes for a highly profitable company – but not a very good environment to work in.
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September 8, 2020 at 11:50 am #63842sept4Participant
Yes exactly. If you’re just a normal trusting person with normal empathy and morals and a normal longing for genuine connection, what chance do you really have against a manipulative user who basically wages a psy ops against you?
As a normal person with basic trust and a normal desire for love and connection and no knowledge of personality disorders or red flags, of course you’re going to fall for a manipulator who uses that desire and naïveté against you and who intentionally targets your weaknesses to be able to use or abuse you.
I think the only people able to recognize and resist a sociopath/psychopath/narcissist/user’s tactics are these categories:
1) you’ve been hurt by them before and learned the hard way so now you recognize the signs from experience
2) you’re naturally very street smart maybe because you grew up in a rough neighborhood or you were educated on the signs and strategies of these users
3) you’re sociopathic yourself and like recognizes like (for example a rich sociopathic businessman and a manipulative golddigger who is just using him for money), you are equally matched and just using each other.
As just a normal trusting loving person without prior bad experience you really have no chance against these manipulation tactics.
I even saw an article about the US intelligence community worrying about Putin manipulating Trump. So even heads of state surrounded by the best most intelligent educated advisors are still vulnerable to manipulation and being used and conned.
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September 8, 2020 at 1:20 pm #63846sept4Participant
Yes I’ve read the same. A high percentage of business CEO’s and finance professionals etc are sociopaths. Because in those professions ruthlessness, lack of empathy, manipulating skills, lack of morals etc are actually very useful and profitable. Basically the more sociopathic you are the more successful you will be in those fields. Plus the charm and charisma that is typical of sociopaths is very useful in rising to the top.
Btw there is also a higher incidence of sociopathy in surgeons. Because the more cold blooded and detached you are, the more you see people as objects instead of persons, the lower your connection and empathy, the easier it is to just cut into someone without any fear or anxiety whatsoever. So in surgery maybe a patient is actually better off with a more cold blooded cold detached unemotional surgeon because they won’t have anxiety and will treat your body as just an object which ironically allows them to perform the surgery better.
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September 8, 2020 at 12:08 pm #63843sept4Participant
And as to highly trained spies idk if I could recognize their manipulation strategies!
But as to your garden variety “regular” sociopath in the dating scene I learned the hard way how they present and I think the signs are pretty simple:
1) they present as extremely charming and charismatic
2) they love bomb you early in the relationship (excessive gifts, trips, money, attention, over the top declarations of love, “sweeping you off your feet” etc)
3) they push to move the relationship forward very quickly before you really know each other (wanting to move in quickly or get married quickly etc)
4) they give you that wonderful “soulmate” feeling like you are meant to be and you found your Prince Charming
All these are just manipulation tactics to draw you in and dazzle you and blind you to their true intentions.
Once you understand their tactics and educate yourself on these signs they’re pretty easy to spot. But who would ever think to suspect this or get educated on personality disorders before getting involved with people like that? You’d have no reason to really. So sadly most people learn the hard way instead.
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September 8, 2020 at 7:27 pm #63851RedwaldParticipant
sept4, thank you for drawing attention to this very interesting article. It’s obviously a “keeper,” so I downloaded it to my Psych folder to read at my leisure some time in the future.
I notice that among other things it expounds on the vulnerabilities some people more than others suffer from that can draw them into the clutches of a manipulator. Greed. Financial problems. A desire for revenge. Dependency. And so forth. Homosexuality used to be one, as I recall from the cases of John Vassall, Guy Burgess, Anthony Blunt and other notorious gay British spies of the past, though I hope that’s less true in today’s more tolerant times when they’re less prone to blackmail.
The case of Sharon Scranage was one I never remembered hearing of, but it was interesting that it took place in Africa. People are used to thinking of “espionage” as involving nations presenting communist threats like the Soviet Union, China, North Korea, Cuba, even the Shining Path in Peru, or troubles in the Mideast from Iran, Iraq and other Islamic countries. Of course there have been problems in Africa as well, from communist-led Cuban interference in Angola to more recent Islamic violence in Nigeria and other African nations. But the fact that Sharon Scranage was manipulated in Ghana reminds us that we have interests to protect all over the world.
From a historical viewpoint it was good to be reminded of important names from the past, from Kwame Nkrumah to Flight-Lieutenant Jerry Rawlings. Ghana has not exactly been a hotbed of our traditional enemies, but Nkrumah, despite his virtues, was more a puppet of the authoritarian communist East than a friend to our free democratic West. (More manipulation on the part of those oppressors?) Nor has Ghana been especially stable since it gained independence. It seems to have settled down in recent years, but in Sharon Scranage’s time it still shared the fate common to so many tinpot Third World nations, who were jokingly said to measure their history in “RPM”: “Revolutions Per Minute”! And stability is in everyone’s interest, except when removing an occasional autocrat, as the CIA supposedly helped to do with the brutal Trujillo in the Dominican Republic. Even that was in the interest of stability, since the alternative was the threat of Cuban intervention on behalf of those disgruntled with the dictator. So I’m sure we had work to do in Ghana in the 1980s, as always.
Responding to Emilie’s observations, I do have sympathy with Sharon Scranage, and at least I can say she was treated leniently, despite the terrible damage she had done to American and other interests in Ghana. You can read some of it on Wikipedia’s article on the scandal. She was seduced in 1983 by a black Ghanaian guy named Michael Agbotui Soussoudis, who was about 36 at the time compared with her 27 years. He was no doubt far more sophisticated, described as a “playboy,” while Sharon apparently was merely a stenographer, despite having access to vital classified information. Having married and divorced an American woman, Soussoudis also had the right of residency in the U.S. After Sharon’s collaboration was exposed, she helped to lure him back from Ghana to the U.S. where he was arrested and imprisoned, But he had compromised many U.S. operatives in Ghana, who in turn had been imprisoned there, and eventually he was swapped for eight of these Ghanaians in a prisoner exchange. They were compensated by being resettled in the U.S., where they were no doubt better off than they would have been in Ghana. There were enemy Soviet connections behind some of this intrigue. Sharon was sentenced to five years in prison, but released after serving only eight months.
There are a couple of interesting remarks in the Wikipedia article. One is about how a CIA security officer noticed a clue early on that Sharon might be having an affair with this fellow, who was suspicious simply by reason of being black. Had she been serving in Russia, shouldn’t they be suspicious if she was having an affair with a Russian? But it wasn’t followed up on for far too long. Did the CIA fall down on their job of supervision?
Similarly, the article states: “it is unclear if the CIA had directed Scranage to form a relationship with Soussoudis, or if the relationship happened spontaneously.” I’m sure we will never be told. But if it was the latter, the CIA must be all the more culpable for sending her out on this mission without closely overseeing its progress. This Soussoudis guy was a formidable opponent, described as “handsome and debonair” along with his other powers of manipulation. You need to know who’s manipulating whom! You don’t send little David out to do battle with Goliath unless you know he’s got his little slingshot in his hand, along with his “five stones from the brook,” and you’re sure his aim is true. Otherwise the enemy is going to walk all over him.
Anyway this report is interesting material–no surprises about the nature of a psychopath, but lots of other informative details anyway.
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September 8, 2020 at 8:03 pm #63852sept4Participant
Wow those details are so fascinating! What an interesting world.
And I’m very glad to hear that she got released early. What woman can resist a charming charismatic handsome man who undoubtedly love bombed her and probably told her she is the love of his life and his soulmate. Especially when she was isolated alone in a foreign country away from friends and family who might be a bit more skeptical.
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September 8, 2020 at 8:18 pm #63853sept4Participant
And yes I also thought it was fascinating when the article discussed what makes people vulnerable to being manipulated.
I read elsewhere that the intelligence world uses the mnemonic M.I.C.E in strategies for manipulation. Depending on the target they would evaluate whether that person was best manipulated either with Money (bribes, rewards etc), Ideology (religion and politics), Compromise (blackmail like over an affair or like you mentioned homosexuality back when that was taboo) or Ego (narcissism – narcissists are actually very easy to manipulate simply by feeding their ego and making them feel special!).
In just the common dating scenario of being manipulated by some handsome charming guy love bombing women, I bet one of the main vulnerabilities they target is women who are lonely and looking for love. And women who are kind and loving and trusting.
Especially women who are selfless helper types must look like a snack to these crooks! They probably laugh at how those women are so gullible in their eyes and believe every lie and help him out of every troubled situation. The more innocent, trusting, kind and helpful a woman is, the more attractive she will be as a target. What a scary world.
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