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Second part of Twitter DM https://ibb.co/7XpVVXH

Note there are typos galore in this, Checkmark Guy is whining about a tweet written by someone else who misspelled his last name by 1 letter but praised his performance in an Amazon Prime series profusely. Fixated on the tiny mistake of someone else I can’t correct because Twitter doesn’t allow you to edit your own tweets, never mind the tweets of others. The audacity of me trying to share praise with him when it’s not in 100% perfect form!

Checkmark Guy’s also whining about a more famous & successful actor (whose acting career is now tiny because of a bout with oral cancer a few years ago) whose fine art (sculpture, mixed media & paintings) I collect as a hobby.

Apparently if you have anything to do with Checkmark Guy, you’re not allowed to have hobbies or heaven forbid if you are female & the target of Checkmark Guy’s interest, any male friends around disordered people like him.

Plus you then have to endure whining about various other things (why not kitchen sink all his complaints about me in just one message?) because he’s been so cruelly wronged & it’s all YOUR fault.

Don’t say anything that makes him feel bad or expect to have to endure out of proportion rants from him like this one.

Correcting Checkmark Guy in public when he says wrong & discriminatory things about people living with dementia is so ‘humiliating’ for him.

See how he’s quick to claim *he’s* a victim, how I ‘took advantage’ of his notoriety (he’s not all that famous, he should be notorious but isn’t), how he ‘naively’ became friends with me (um, no, he’s the one who called me first & insistently wanted to teach me some martial arts breathing techniques)?

FYI other than 1 tai chi class I did years ago, the martial arts are not my pastime, they’re *his* interest, he hopes to someday get paid to teach it (a money-making scheme, they have plenty of these most of which are pipe dreams), he’s merely renamed an existing form of Qi Gong breathing exercises but claims to have ‘invented’ it, yet I have all the same info in a book on Tai Chi & Chi Gong that long predates any contact with Checkmark Guy.

Checkmark Guy’s the one who hit on me on our 2nd phone call (love bombing early on, I was surprised & mildly creeped out by it) & kept it up for months until when he thought he finally had my interest, he decided to let me know he is still married (‘separated’ but that’s not the same as divorced, you should never try to tell a lawyer ‘marriage is just a piece of paper’, there’s my pro tip for disordered people trying to con us normal psychologically healthy types).

Plus he then trickled out another bit of truth (they can never let you find it all out at once, they love to torture people with dragging out their sordid truths over as much time as you will give them) the very next day (I had hung up on him twice the night before, he had earned it):

Checkmark Guy also has a baby mama & a 3rd *college aged* child he lets the world think is the youngest child of his marriage. People think that marriage ended several years ago because he doesn’t correct the professional directory in which he’s listed or the minimal media coverage he’s had over his 4 decades+ long acting career, it suits him to scam everyone into thinking he’s a divorced guy & a ‘good dad’.

It also suits Checkmark Guy to hide how he pled no contest to a domestic violence charge with yet another ‘girlfriend’ over 10 years ago (& wow was he ever mad when I confronted him with that fact, a vigilant friend of mine dug that up about him).

This incident happened a few months into our cyber/phone contact. Had I known better, I would have cut him off then (100% no contact) & avoided a lot of nonsense & disappointment & drama from him. But the rest of that private Twitter exchange was Checkmark Guy insisting I ‘ruined his Christmas’ with this praise-filled but misspelled tweet of some other person’s (it was December 20th when this exchange happened), that he unilaterally decided our ‘friendship’ was over & he also still insisted he was right (& had a right to be so dramatically upset).

Until he sheepishly had to admit just a few hours later that in fact, no one on Twitter can edit someone else’s tweets.

His apology Twitter direct message was a brief & literal ‘MY BAD..VERY VERY BAD…DIDNT LOOK CLOSELY ENUFF..I AM SORRY’

The all-caps shouting, the misspellings, the poor punctuation, the absolute minimal effort put into apology or repair of the situation is all the real him. And most disordered people.

Anyway I hope people find this useful, actual evidence of disordered thinking, behavior & living.

• This reply was modified 3 years, 8 months ago by nosp.
• This reply was modified 3 years, 8 months ago by nosp.
• This reply was modified 3 years, 8 months ago by nosp.