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Can a female sociopath completely cause her partner to become just like her?

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  • This topic has 2 replies, 3 voices, and was last updated 1 year, 5 months ago by kipper.
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    • December 26, 2023 at 10:04 am #71354
      Synergy
      Participant

      My brother, who was the smartest and most interesting member of our family, in my opinion, has taken on the qualities of his sociopathic wife. He has lost his personality. He doesn’t do anything without her permission. He “tells her everything,” which is what he told my sister. And that means EVERYTHING. Nothing I say to him stays it him — it’s passed on to her. Does anyone else know of a situation like this?

    • December 29, 2023 at 1:40 pm #71360
      Donna Andersen
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      Synergy – What you are describing is very common among people who are being mind-controlled by sociopaths.

      Sociopaths are just like cult leaders. In fact, I believe that cult leaders are sociopaths – on steroids. They actually control the target’s thoughts and reactions by controlling their physical reality, the information they get, and finally by narrowing the range of emotions they are allowed to feel.

      The result is that the target’s personality seems to have totally changed. Actually, there’s a cult personality layered on top of the original personality. This is actually a bit of good news, because it’s possible to recover the original personality, if the person gets away from the sociopath.

      You might want to read about mind control and brainwashing. Here’s a good place to start:

      Coercive persuasion, mind control and brain washing

    • January 8, 2024 at 1:08 pm #71386
      kipper
      Participant

      coercive control to the max! I haven’t seen my son in seven years and believe him when
      he says she finds out everything…do not put anything in writing but if you are still able to see him, experts say to keep talking …but really I just want to blow this
      woman up!
      She is a sadistic malignant narcissist and has destroyed my family…and she’s not even
      personable…the projections are intense and now his brother is buying into it…heaven
      knows no one asks me if I did whatever she said I did.
      As soon as she got him to move across the country, there was NO CONTACT…I could
      text, she would read it, no VM, she disabled it after I cried once..honestly the gaslighting, I feel crazy but I know I didn’t do anything, except I was on to her from
      the beginning. It wasn’t difficult, her social skills were a bit bizarre..
      After seven years, I decided to travel to try to talk to my son in his driveway. Literally that was my goal. My son is not a dog lover but they had two big dogs, both in
      crates, like the budweiser dog. This is bugging me, why get two large dogs if you don’t even like dogs? She is absolutely paranoid, maybe that is why.
      I never saw my son but I got the weirdest vibe talking to her thru the door…danger.

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