Father Dies Mother Sister Steal

[mendmefrom2]

My mother and one older sibling have always treated me horribly and lied about everything. They destroyed my marriage, tried to hurt my children, turns my youngest son with my ex against me. My father died of cancer and they kept my youngest sibling and myself from him to keep all his very little money in his account and all of the items we had bought for him to be away from my mom and sister. My ex and both the mother and sister vowed to destroy me. Almost every friend I had is NOW their social media friends and I have parted with those friends after seeing it for myself but am not part of this social media. My father admitted and told me how he caught my mother cheating and said that my oldest is a narcissist. My younger sister after pulling me into the mess again, feeling sorry only for my father to make sure he was ok has not spoken to me since my father passed.

[polestar]

Hi mendme – I understand how betrayed you must feel having everyone turn against you both from the extreme past and then more recently with your younger sister, who pulled you back into it all, only to give you the silent treatment now. Plus the sorrow you must feel due to the passing of your dad. And knowing what he must have endured with your mother having cheated on him. I admire your tenacity and your integrity to stick to your truth even when others do all they can to hurt you in many ways. Plus all the stuff about your ex. Perhaps it is a blessing that your younger sister is not talking to you now, so that you can once and for all, get free of their whole toxic mess. My advise is to continue to stay away from them and all their social media etc. Take this time to focus on your own healing, to process and allow their negativity to drain away, and then to practice self love. Reading about dysfunctional families and narcissism will help get you educated and will help you gain back your center and your self respect. My further advise would be to keep them away from you in every way possible. And to focus on one day at a time. Keep posting with any further concerns you have because we are here to support you through this difficult time.
Blessings

[sunnygal1]

Mendme Sorry to hear what has happened but there is often discord after a death. After my mom died my brother and nieces took many of her things I posted about a book to help people prepare for death. I’ll try and find it. Take care of yourself Blessings

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