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He told my friend to kill himself many times…he jumped under a bus. Help!!!!

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  • This topic has 4 replies, 3 voices, and was last updated 5 years, 3 months ago by Sunnygal.
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    • March 4, 2020 at 12:55 am #56280
      helpagirlout
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      Ladies..hi again, in a very different, much darker tone…ive been posting here a couple of times.

      I thought I got rid of him. He was gone for a couple of days following him recieving the letter from the police.

      2 days back my friend called me telling me how he cannot stand being told to kill himself anymore. When I inquired further he demanded i drop the matter. My ex has been telling my depressed friend to kill himself consistenlty over the past few weeks.

      I was the last person he called. He jumped in front of that big white bus 20 minutes after.

      And the death btw? He didnt die immidiatelly, despite the strong collision.
      I remember the road he died on, I remember him telling me to be very careful crossing the street there as the cars tend to speed up in that intersection the last time I was there.
      He chose that same particular intersection.

      I would paste the news article but I didnt have the heart to tell his poor mother yet. I contacted the detective and forwarded the messages. If the detectives dont do anything about this “suspicious suicide” because of lack of funds or the fact the 3 of us reside in 2 different countries or whatever Ill have to think of something.

      All suggestions welcome. I really need help here. This is getting insane.

    • March 4, 2020 at 12:59 am #56281
      helpagirlout
      Participant

      By help I mean: I really dont know what to do. I think its very possible he left the country.

      How should I even tell his mother? I dont want her to read this horrible shit.

      Should I paste this all over the internet to expose him? Hes really monstrous and dangerous. He is also very good at using words as a wepon (these were the words of the guy who killed himself). I never thought that my ex’s words would actually kill…my friend.

      Holy shit I still dont believe he’s dead. I cant believe he’s dead.

      Help!!

    • March 5, 2020 at 3:02 pm #56321
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      This sounds like a very sick and very sad situation. You need to detach from this sick guy and move on. You can call the National Domestic Violence hotline.

    • March 7, 2020 at 9:56 am #56335
      Donna Andersen
      Keymaster

      Helpagirlout – that’s terrible. What country did the accident take place in? In the United States, people have been convicted for convincing someone to commit suicide. Can you please post the news article here?

    • March 7, 2020 at 8:34 pm #56339
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      help- If you bring attention to this it keeps you in contact with the sick guy. The mother could do it in my opinion.

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