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"If you loved me half as much as I love you" song lyrics

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  • This topic has 4 replies, 3 voices, and was last updated 8 years, 1 month ago by Synergy.
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    • January 29, 2017 at 9:42 pm #39525
      Synergy
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      “Half as Much” is a great old country song sung by Hank Williams, Patsy Cline, Ray Charles, Rosemary Clooney (my favorite), and many others. It’s composer was Curley Williams (not related to Hank Williams.)

      The song lyrics say, “You’re nice to me, when there’s no one else around; you only build me up, to tear me down.” I think most of us here, know by now that abusers do just the opposite! They build us up when there ARE other people around, then “behind closed doors” they light-into us — with whatever their chosen abusive methods they prefer — beatings, extreme irritability and perfectionism, major put-downs, gaslighting, emotional abuse, abusing the children in front of us…

      So I altered some lyrics, and wrote another verse.These are not copyrighted, because I wrote them myself. I’m a singer, by the way. I love this song. I grew up hearing it.

      Here’s what I’ve got:

      (E) A A7 D
      You’re nice to me when there’s people all around
      B B7 E E7
      But then at home, you cruelly put me down.

      AND

      A A7 D
      You’re nice to me when there’s others all around
      B B7 E E7
      You only build me up to take me down

      HERE’S THE FULL NEW VERSE I WROTE:

      If you loved me half as much as you say

      You wouldn’t bully me almost every day.

      I work at home, while you go out to play

      You say the words, but then you go away.

      THEN THE ORIGINAL CHORUS STARTS WITH:

      If you missed me half as much as I miss you

      You wouldn’t stay away half as much as you do

      [You can look up the whole song in YouTube.]

    • March 25, 2017 at 2:45 pm #40384
      Sunnygal
      Participant

      Many song lyrics are really off.

    • March 25, 2017 at 3:42 pm #40385
      Synergy
      Participant

      Yes! I changed them for my own singing. I do that a lot with many songs that I sing.

    • March 25, 2017 at 4:28 pm #40386
      Jan7
      Participant

      Hi Synergy, heres a good song for everyone who is just out of their relationship & first imposting the No contact rule:

      Kelly Clarkson “Since you been gone”…google those words with the word “video” to watch her music video for free:

      Here’s the thing
      We started out friends
      It was cool, but it was all pretend
      Yeah, yeah
      Since you been gone

      You’re dedicated, you took the time
      Wasn’t long till I called you mine
      Yeah, yeah
      Since you been gone

      And all you’d ever hear me say
      Is how I picture me with you
      That’s all you’d ever hear me say

      But since you been gone
      I can breathe for the first time
      I’m so moving on
      Yeah, yeah
      Thanks to you
      Now I get what I want
      Since you been gone

      How can I put it? You put me on
      I even fell for that stupid love song
      Yeah, yeah
      Since you been gone

      How come I’ve never heard you say
      I just want to be with you?
      Guess you never felt that way

      But since you been gone
      I can breathe for the first time
      I’m so moving on
      Yeah, yeah
      Thanks to you
      Now I get what I want
      Since you been gone

      You had your chance, you blew it
      Out of sight, out of mind
      Shut your mouth, I just can’t take it
      Again, and again, and again, and again

      Since you been gone (since you been gone)
      I can breathe for the first time
      I’m so moving on
      Yeah, yeah
      Thanks to you (thanks to you)
      Now I get, I get what I want

      I can breathe for the first time
      I’m so moving on
      Yeah, yeah
      Thanks to you (thanks to you), now I get (I get)
      You should know (you should know)
      That I get
      I get what I want
      Since you been gone
      Since you been gone
      Since you been gone

    • March 25, 2017 at 6:02 pm #40387
      Synergy
      Participant

      Dear Jan7, thanks for sharing — great lyrics! Great video. Very original, funny and powerful video!

      Here’s another powerful song — I’m learning to sing/play this one:

      Go to YouTube and do a search for I Love You So Much I Hate Myself

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