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sociopath was a friend, now stalker

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    • June 16, 2018 at 4:58 am #45821
      jean2u
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      I have known this woman for 39+ years, we were very good friends for about 10 years, about 10 years ago. A male friend came to me 8 years ago and told me this woman was stalking him and doing all kinds of awful things to him. I defended this psychopath full tilt boogie, said I had known her 30 years (at that time) and there was no way she would do any thing remotely like what he was saying.

      Three and a half years ago I heard her loud mouth across the street partying with a sociopath ex of mine who had been breaking into my house. I called her a nasty name and she has not left since then. She has her own home 15 miles away but hangs out at the apartment building directly behind my duplex. Now it is a “gang Stalking” thing.

      She poisoned my dog, did it on Sunday. Monday morning I got my dog to the vet at 8:00 am, vet said the dog “consumed something it shouldn’t have, did it get under the sink and eat something?” Impossible. The dog died that morning and when I came home hysterical about the dog this psycho said “This is my best birthday ever” I had not been keeping calendars for about three years, since my Mom died. I looked and it was Nov. 28. I got out old calendars dating back to 1994 and every Nov. 28 had her Bday written on it so she had made it abundantly clear to me she did it. How do I get rid of this vile, foul thing? I am 60 years old, alone and have never in my life had to deal with somebody so inherently evil. She has interfered with every aspect of my life to get revenge for me calling her this nasty name. I am in desperate need of help. SHe has been doing this stalking thing for a long time so I cannot catch her to prove to the police she is here. My neighbor who is like family thinks I am deflecting grief from my mom’s death upon this made up person. It is a nightmare. Help

    • June 18, 2018 at 9:51 am #45840
      Donna Andersen
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      jean2u — I am so sorry for your situation. It is shocking how they can turn and what they are capable of.

      What is the nature of her stalking? If she is not breaking any laws, your best bet may be to totally ignore her. Understand that what she wants is an emotional reaction out of you. She feeds on your reactions. So do not give her any reactions. Even if she upsets you, don’t let her see it. Hopefully she’ll get bored and move on.

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