How to recognize and recover from the sociopaths – narcissists in your life › Forums › Lovefraud Community Forum – General › Book Review- The Narc Decoder by Tina Swithin This topic contains 0 replies, has 1 voice, and was last updated by Sunnygal 1 week, 3 days ago. Author Posts September 9, 2019 at 8:29 pm #54166 SunnygalParticipant She says narcs engage in projection- accusing you of something they are doing. Her communication advice is DO NOT ENGAGE. If you must engage be calm and businesslike. Author Posts You must be logged in to reply to this topic.