How to recognize and recover from the sociopaths – narcissists in your life › Forums › Lovefraud Community Forum – General › Can you self-discipline? This topic has 1 reply, 1 voice, and was last updated 5 years, 7 months ago by Sunnygal. Viewing 1 reply thread Author Posts September 9, 2018 at 12:23 pm #46944 SunnygalParticipant Psychologist pat allen has a one day seminar on Dealing with addictions. One question she asks is ‘can you self-discipline?’ this is one way to get over an addiction, addictive relationship. this is described in her newsletter. September 9, 2018 at 12:24 pm #46945 SunnygalParticipant good question. Author Posts Viewing 1 reply thread You must be logged in to reply to this topic. Log In Username: Password: Keep me signed in Log In