How to recognize and recover from the sociopaths – narcissists in your life › Forums › Lovefraud Community Forum – General › Can you self-discipline? This topic contains 1 reply, has 1 voice, and was last updated by Sunnygal 10 months, 1 week ago. Author Posts September 9, 2018 at 12:23 pm #46944 SunnygalParticipant Psychologist pat allen has a one day seminar on Dealing with addictions. One question she asks is ‘can you self-discipline?’ this is one way to get over an addiction, addictive relationship. this is described in her newsletter. September 9, 2018 at 12:24 pm #46945 SunnygalParticipant good question. Author Posts You must be logged in to reply to this topic.