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it was her fault

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How to recognize and recover from the sociopaths – narcissists in your life › Forums › Lovefraud Community Forum – General › it was her fault

  • This topic has 2 replies, 3 voices, and was last updated 7 years, 3 months ago by Donna Andersen.
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    • March 4, 2018 at 8:59 pm #44379
      freedomformydaughter
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      she says she will be alright tomorrow
      she says it was all her fault

      we know he has blamed her. he has said it is all her fault
      she believes him and tries to be better, tries not to get upset, tries not to react
      dies to herself so he can continue to hurt her, continue to blame her for his misdoings
      continue to blame her for his neglect and emotional unavailability

      a mother’s heart aches and bleeds for her daughter
      that she will see
      that she will open her eyes and comprehend what she is seeing
      that she will open her ears and understand what she is hearing
      that he does not love her
      that he does not care for her
      that he is satisfied to use her, abuse her
      hurt her, leave her, abandon her, blame her, be cruel to her
      and she waits and suffers and keeps it all to herself

      as she is not allowed to speak about the relationship

      ‘it was all my fault anyway’…

      oh the agony for a mother of a daughter involved in love fraud.

    • March 5, 2018 at 12:29 am #44381
      angelstar
      Participant

      Sorry to hear what your going though. Just be supportive and encouraging to your daughter with open arms, sooner or later she will want to leave him. The love spell will finally were off and she will need a place to run too.

    • March 8, 2018 at 4:30 pm #44429
      Donna Andersen
      Keymaster

      freedomformydaughter – the situation for you and your daughter is heartbreaking. You express it so eloquently. I hope at some point she will start to see the truth.

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