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November 16, 2018 at 2:42 pm #47572
I know this doesn’t work in abusive relationships, because the abused runs back to the abuser until their eyes are opened. We’ve tried. But still, I completely identify with this mother zebra!
(in this 15 sec video footage of her rescuing her baby from a lion’s jaws in link below)
And I still wish I could do this. ‘Back off bastard she’s not yours. Let her go.’ and then literally, ‘run for your life baby girl!’
- This topic was modified 6 months ago by freedomformydaughter.
November 17, 2018 at 12:13 am #47578
Sorry to hear what your going through, trying to get through to your daughter will be a tough job. Your daughter is probably addicted to the trauma bond, which the victim gets addicted to the emotional roller coaster. It’s addictive like a drug, with a mixture of high levels of the stress hormone cortisol, paired with dopamine when given affection as a reward. “Through gaslighting, control, and intermittent love, the abuser has their partner backed into a corner of self-blame and desperation of trying to win back the affection of the person they love.”
Here is an article that explains it all Link: Trauma bond
Trauma bonding is very addictive, hes probably got her emotionally controlled, and the only way out for her might be alot of therapy,
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