How to recognize and recover from the sociopaths – narcissists in your life › Forums › Lovefraud Community Forum – General › Your world view changes after dealing with a psychopath
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March 1, 2018 at 7:47 pm #44346SunnygalParticipant
We are brought up to believe all people are good but after dealing with a psychopath and the inevitable harm that comes, our world view does change. We now know there are disordered people.
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March 1, 2018 at 8:59 pm #44347SunnygalParticipant
We learn to notice red flags.
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March 2, 2018 at 11:48 pm #44352angelstarParticipant
It’s very shocking to see all the shady things they do and can get away with, they are always flying under the radar. They are truly evil, full of tricks and deception. They think and act differently then we do, and are so hard to figure out, and it’s almost like there not even real humans, animals without a soul. Being with a sociopath with ruin your life, they are out to seek and destroy anything in it’s path
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March 3, 2018 at 4:30 am #44354SunnygalParticipant
angelstar Yes, psychopaths are harmful and evil but i try and remember that 90% of people are decent, caring people. We need to be on guard against disordered people but be aware of and grateful every day for all the wonderful people.
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April 4, 2018 at 7:16 pm #44967SunnygalParticipant
this is true.
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April 23, 2018 at 2:37 pm #45251traumatized41Participant
My whole world view has changed and I wish it never would have happened. I would do anything to not have had this experience. Now I am forced to analyze myself. Now I see how I am too giving and to caring and helping is a detriment in my character. I wish I could have gone through my life spinning my wheels trying to do for everyone as much as I could. I used to feel good about myself. Now I just feel like Im a disaster. 🙁
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June 7, 2018 at 6:22 pm #45766zoe7Participant
You are far from a disaster 41. You are a beautiful, caring person who was unfortunately taken advantage of and abused. Your abuser is an empty, soulless shell, who will never really love anyone, or truly be happy.
I promise that you will heal and get past this devastation. Your self-analysis, though painful now, will reap many future rewards. I am sending all the love I can conjure your way today and always. The best times in our lives are yet to come; I am sure of it.
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April 24, 2018 at 6:58 pm #45264Donna AndersenKeymaster
traumatized41 – yes, your worldview changes when you become aware of people whose motivations are totally different from the rest of us. Still, it’s important to know that they exist. It sounds like you’re in the transition from naivete to wisdom – which feels like a disaster.
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April 24, 2018 at 8:20 pm #45265traumatized41Participant
Thank you for responding. Here is to hoping it gets better from here?
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June 5, 2018 at 3:16 pm #45751SunnygalParticipant
traumatized hope it is getting better.
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