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Your world view changes after dealing with a psychopath

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This topic contains 9 replies, has 5 voices, and was last updated by  zoe7 4 months, 2 weeks ago.

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  • #44346

    Sunnygal
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    We are brought up to believe all people are good but after dealing with a psychopath and the inevitable harm that comes, our world view does change. We now know there are disordered people.

  • #44347

    Sunnygal
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    We learn to notice red flags.

  • #44352

    angelstar
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    It’s very shocking to see all the shady things they do and can get away with, they are always flying under the radar. They are truly evil, full of tricks and deception. They think and act differently then we do, and are so hard to figure out, and it’s almost like there not even real humans, animals without a soul. Being with a sociopath with ruin your life, they are out to seek and destroy anything in it’s path

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  • #44354

    Sunnygal
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    angelstar Yes, psychopaths are harmful and evil but i try and remember that 90% of people are decent, caring people. We need to be on guard against disordered people but be aware of and grateful every day for all the wonderful people.

  • #44967

    Sunnygal
    Participant

    this is true.

  • #45251

    traumatized41
    Participant

    My whole world view has changed and I wish it never would have happened. I would do anything to not have had this experience. Now I am forced to analyze myself. Now I see how I am too giving and to caring and helping is a detriment in my character. I wish I could have gone through my life spinning my wheels trying to do for everyone as much as I could. I used to feel good about myself. Now I just feel like Im a disaster. 🙁

    • #45766

      zoe7
      Participant

      You are far from a disaster 41. You are a beautiful, caring person who was unfortunately taken advantage of and abused. Your abuser is an empty, soulless shell, who will never really love anyone, or truly be happy.

      I promise that you will heal and get past this devastation. Your self-analysis, though painful now, will reap many future rewards. I am sending all the love I can conjure your way today and always. The best times in our lives are yet to come; I am sure of it.

  • #45264

    Donna Andersen
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    traumatized41 – yes, your worldview changes when you become aware of people whose motivations are totally different from the rest of us. Still, it’s important to know that they exist. It sounds like you’re in the transition from naivete to wisdom – which feels like a disaster.

  • #45265

    traumatized41
    Participant

    Thank you for responding. Here is to hoping it gets better from here😕

  • #45751

    Sunnygal
    Participant

    traumatized hope it is getting better.

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