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Hi I’m new on here ,I’ve recently discovered what in fact is wrong with my horrible narcissist husband ,sickening even worse his mother whom is 1st generation narcissist completely pulls his strings ,she hates me and has effected our marriage from day one ,sadly my weak husband lets her and in turn he’s made me weak and desperate for his love ,I feel I’m battling both of them and no I should get out for my sanity ,if I bring it up to him I get the silent treatment it lasted 10 months recently sheer hell sadly my husband is extremely ill so I feel guilty if I leave .
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monte98765 – I am so sorry for your experience. Personality disorders are highly genetic, so they do run in families. Your husband will always treat you the way he has been treating you. Even when he recovers from his illness, it will be bad. You may feel like you need to care for him because of the illness, and your husband may convince you of that, because they often try to make their targets feel guilty. But keep this in mind – sociopaths typically do not take care of others who are sick, so if you ever need him to return the favor, it is unlikely he will.
Your first responsibility is to your own health, wellbeing and peace of mind.
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