There have been countless depictions of sociopaths and other predatory personalities in film. Most are pretty bad, incomplete and/or inaccurate. But some have been dead-on.
And so I’ve canvassed my memory for what I regard as several notably excellent portraits of sociopaths in film. I’d be curious what you think of these performances (if you’ve seen them), and eager to discover, through you, new film/television portraits of sociopaths that ring disturbingly true.
In no special order, I’ll start with the original foreign film, The Vanishing, 1986 (not the subsequent and lame Hollywood remake). The Vanishing delivers-up one of the most sinister depictions of a sociopath I’ve ever seen. The fright derives less from graphic violence (there is none) than from the movie’s success at immersing you into the compartmentalized world of its principal character, who is seamlessly managing the presentation of a normal, well-adjusted family man, as he simultaneously and covertly pursues his secret life and morbid agenda.
Next is Unlawful Entry, 1992, a movie starring Ray Liotta as a local cop who smoothly enters the life of a young neighborhood couple (actors Kurt Russell and Anne Archer). Although somewhat formulaic plot-wise, the movie’s performances are impressive. Liotta’s sociopath—glib, charming and seductive—will make the hair on your skin rise. And both Archer and Russell vividly express the tension and alarm arising from their slow awareness that Liotta isn’t who he appeared so convincingly to be.
Richard Gere, in a somewhat unheralded role, nails-down a sociopathic cop in Internal Affairs, 1990. Gere gives a riveting presentation of the sociopathic mentality. Andy Garcia (actor), an Internal Affairs cop in Gere’s department, finds himself in the unenviable position of having to confront the slowly unfolding breadth (and horror) of Gere’s sociopathy. Garcia is also incredible. As in Unlawful Entry, the movie accurately shows how sociopaths can invade, lodge themselves in, and violate innocent, dignified lives.
One of the greatest performances of a sociopath I’ve ever seen can be found in Episode#44 of the former HBO series Six Feet Under. The episode is called, “That’s My Dog.” In it, David (actor Michael C. Hall) extends a random act of help to a road-stranded stranger, Jake (actor Michael Weston). David then finds himself overpowered by Jake, who, in the course of the episode’s hour, manages to embody virtually every relevant, sinister quality for which the sociopath is notorious. Weston’s demonic performance is astonishing. Hall’s as the traumatized victim of a sadistic sociopath is equally amazing.
Great performance, yes. Sociopath? Maybe not.
Dexter
Speaking of actor Michael C. Hall, I wonder what your take is on Dexter, the great Showtime Series in which Hall plays a sociopathic serial killer working, by day, as a Miami crime-scene forensics analyst?
I love this series, which is coming into its third season. But as disturbing a character as Dexter is, I would not characterize him as a sociopath. This is just a fun diagnostic quibble. Ostensibly, Dexter grows up a budding, violent sociopath. His father (or father-figure) recognizes the dark, evil side over which, as a boy and adolescent, Dexter seems to have little, and diminishing, control. The father sees that Dexter is compulsively, inexorably inclined to sadistic violence.
His solution is to somehow train Dexter to direct his sociopathic, homicidal proclivities towards cruel, menacing, destructive individuals. Best, if someone’s got to be snuffed-out by Dexter, it be someone the world will be better without!
And so Dexter becomes skilled, over time, at identifying individuals the world won’t miss; individuals as dangerous and creepy as he.
Why, then, is Dexter not really a sociopath—and indeed, diagnostically speaking, not even necessarily plausible? Because, despite his violent, murderous compulsions, Dexter is, first of all, a fundamentally sincere person. He is also loyal–for instance to his sister and a girlfriend. And while Dexter struggles to “feel” warm feelings, indeed anything—a struggle, incidentally, that he embraces—he knows how to have the backs of others, even where his self-interest may be at risk.
In a word, Dexter strives, against his darkest, most sordid inclinations, for growth. This is precisely what makes him and the series so fascinating, and precisely what rules him out as sociopath.
What do you think?
(This article is copyrighted (c) 2008 by Steve Becker, LCSW.)
new world, mine too loves two and a half men and he wanted to watch it all the time when we lived to gether i hated it too charlie what a womaniser, think my ex related to the character and this is why he liked to watch it.
Maybe Charlie was “type-cast” NWV! LOL
I watch very little TV and only see the occasional show or promo for one when I am at a friend’s house and they have the tube on.
Humor (and what different people find funny) is interesting to me. Most “humor” is watching someone else get hurt—slip on a banana peel, or be embarassed, etc. but I find NOTHING funny about that show.
First, who in the world would let their young son live in such an environment?
To find the character “funny” for his indescriminate sex is revolting.
To find such a “role model” for a young boy “funny” is also revolting.
I can see, however, how a P would “like” that show. Also revolting.
Where is the PUKE emoticon when you need one?
oxdrover; it totally agree revolting on many levels. its on about twice a night in aus where i live too much it should be taken off air. its so sexist , and i find it degrading to woman but heeps of people seem to like it and think its funny . i dont get it. whats so funny about someone sleeping around at his age . ……… yuk.
Did anyone mention the movie “Body Heat” with Kathleen Turner and William Hurt? Tuner exploits Hurt’s character to the max … conning him before she set it up to meet him. He, thinking their meeting was random, Turner’s character playing him before they even met. Hurt plays an attorney who happens to have scummy clients … so he’s aware of the down and outs of society … Turner plays the neglected wife of a millionaire who’s work ethics are more than questionable. Turner gets Hurt to kill the husband so they can go off into the sunset together living off the murdered husband’s millions … to find to his horror … he’s picked up and incarcerated for murder … she’s long gone into the wild blue yonder (looking for her next victim) … having killed her best friend from H.S., stealing her identity … so it appears the killer wife and murderer are both punished for their deeds. Triple twist in this movie … seems that is what anti-socials are all about … all the multiple levels twisting and turning your life around to getting what they want. Ulterior motive at it’s best … live and upfront in our movie theatres … giving the anti-socials of the world ingenious ideas (mousetraps) to use against the rest of us.
I wonder if this movie was one of my EX’s favorites???
Peace.
I keep wondering why my ex-bf is so different from the usual sociopath.. he’s not a taker in most of his life, he’s the giver, always bending over backwards for people.. but he has this whole other side to him….
kat-
he’s not different, his act is how he gets the “take.”
Mine acts holier-than-thou, super-dad-of-the-year, offers rides to everyone…
it’s his in.
The key is theirs is not “selfless” giving, it’s an instrument of extraction.
Kat, if they didn’t PRETEND to be something they are not, if they let their REAL face and intentions shine through, how many victims do you think they would CATCH?
“You get more bees with HONEY than you do with vinegar”
They have to mask over the “other side” of them by pretending to be Kind and caring and giving—but they don’t give “gifts” of things or of “nice deeds” without ULTERIOR MOTIVES.
If I was trying to con you for say money, I wouldn’t say “look bitch I hate you, give me some money” I would say, “Darling, you are so beautiful, could you help me out til pay day?”
If they are trying to con you with sex or whatever, same thing. If they are wanting people to think they are “great” (NS) same song second or third verse. They don’t do anyting that they don’t GET SOMETHING out of it.
My X-BF-P used to go mow my mom’s yard (an all day job even on a riding mower) and mom said “He’s salting the cow to catch the calf” which is what the old frontier guys used to do when they let their cattle run wild, they owuld put out salt for the cow and she would bring her calf up with her and they would catch the calf. By appearing (to the cow) to be GIVING her something for nothing, they lured her in so that they could take away her baby. So they may be nice to your friends, nice ot your family, etc. to get these people thinking what a great guy they are so that your friends and family will influence you to stay with them when you start to bolt when the abuse starts. They are cleaver buggers! They are!
My donkeys think of work (what I call work) as “abuse” so frequently I go give them a treat of a slice of bread which they love and come to me for. If everytime I did that they would soon catch on and not come, but because I don’t work them every tiime I give the bread they never know when I will be “nice’or when I will be “abusive” to them. The lazy devils! ha ha But even with bread they won’t come near me if they know I have a rope in my hand to attach to their halters, so I have to keep it hidden. Also I will use one to catch the other, if I have one caught and I lead him off the other one WILL follow into the corral where he is trapped and can’t get away. So they use our children and other loved ones to catch us just like the guys salting the cow to catch the calf.
I see so many ways that they “train” us just like I train animals by perdicting their behavior under certain circumstances, and planning my behavior to counter what I don’t want the to do.
It is “humbling” to realize we have been “trained” just as I train animals, but I know that for so long when my mom or my P-son said “jump” I said “How High?” NO MORE. They can keep their damned salt, I’ll find my own!
hey K-o-line….I understand what your saying. my s is the same way…with his job he over helps people…and with me he will give me his last dime to help me if i needed it. Helps me with bills to if need be because he knows I am a single mother struggling. That is why maybe I get confused. I always read that s steal money and use people for what they want. Now he does do the control thing and uses the things he does for me at a later time…with “all that i have done for you you atleast owe me a conversation.” But it just so happens he has “conversations” with to many other women…oh and says that too…I dont love them like i love you, I dont spend money on them for helping them or seeing them…i made mistakes with them…now promises me all the love he has and for me to be his only one…but still is calling the other chick…hmmmmm
Ok try “Angela’s Ashes” and The father character, as depicted, is a perfect specimen I am familiar with, unfortunately.
Hi Dr S- long time, no?
Great post –
I’m interested in seeing the Oliver Stone movie “W” — from the trailers looks like our president may have some of the characteristics (not to be partisan or even disrespectful, but I’ve wondered if his decision making was dulled by prior alcohol abuse issues).