Editor’s note: Diane Dawber is a founder of the Health Pursuits Reading Group. A Lovefraud reader suggested the following contribution on alternative health strategies. Please remember that Lovefraud is not a medical resource, and if you are suffering from symptoms like those discussed below you should consult a doctor.
Adrenals and PTSD
By Diane Dawber
In 1996, a small group of mostly professionals, felled too early by chronic illnesses such as Fibromyalgia (FM), Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS), Multiple Chemical Sensitivities (MCS), asthma, arthritis, etc., started studying together to see what they could do for themselves since the medical system did not have much to offer. With books recommended by the few doctors who were studying nutrition, environment, diet, etc., they read, tried out the strategies, discussed results and compiled data.
After spending a million dollars on diets, supplements, therapies, etc, they have narrowed down to some strategies that are cost, time and results effective. All the original members, as well as many others, are using these strategies and they are so much better than they were 15 years ago, despite all being in their sixties. The group is now incorporated as a Canadian not-for-profit, Health Pursuits Reading and Research: MEND. The goal is to help as many people as they can, despite no funding other than memberships. Diseases receive funding. Political action receives funding. Getting well doesn’t rate.
Background
I myself was the worst case of FM my Toronto doctor had ever seen. After 25 years as a teacher, in 1990 I was disabled and totally unable to be active in my career. I was in terrible pain 24/7. I could check my email once a week with difficulty. I could lift only a pound without repercussions. I couldn’t sit or stand or walk for 5 minutes without worse pain. Plus, I have contradictory reactions to opiates like codeine. I was so chemically sensitive that I couldn’t read a newspaper or go downtown without headache and nausea from fumes. I thought my life was over.
The worst thing was that doctors took one look at my file and saw that my mother had committed suicide when I was 8, and a string of other unpleasant events through the rest of my life. My illness must be psychological. Just didn’t want to work. The hypnotherapy doctor told me that I was just showing off when I got a Masters degree. You can read the horror story in my book, Lifting the Bull (Quarry Press, 1999), which I assembled page by painful page as the reading group and I explored the alternate medical universe.
In 1995, I started working with Dr. Kathleen Kerr and Dr. Lynn Marshall at the Environmental Health Clinic in Toronto. Dr. Kerr recommended books on nutrition, diet and environmental clean-up. We learned of other books from the few similar doctors. I got rid of chemicals and mold. I did the IgG allergy testing and changed my diet to eliminate problem foods. I had blood testing to identify some deficiencies. I had osteopathic treatment for biomechanical problems.
Now I’m 65 and today I cleaned up the house, did errands, went to my exercise class, made a big batch of soup, walked for an hour, worked in the garden, did emails and other writing all without pain or fatigue.
Adrenal function
One particular nutritional area of study has proven most useful. That is adrenal function. Adrenals mediate allergic/stress responses, in other words, PTSD. When a situation provokes an adrenaline response, blood vessels narrow, blood pressure goes up, rational thought is suppressed in favour of ‘flight or fight,’ glucose dumps into the blood stream driving up blood sugar, fluids are lost, digestion either stops or empties you get the picture. This is not a good state in which to make decisions about anything from what to eat to what do with your future.
Adrenaline spikes, you get a buzz, and then what? Adrenaline must be processed by our bodies. Then the adrenals need to make more. After many such episodes, the nutrients the adrenals require to function may become deficient so they cannot respond as well. Then when an incident provokes an adrenaline response, you become extremely fatigued and have lots of other symptoms. Uzzi Reiss’ book, The Natural Superwoman, has a good chapter on adrenaline, explaining different stages of adrenal wear and tear. (Research cortisol as well.)
Supplements
The biochemical elements that are used in processing adrenaline are being studied. Many years ago, Dr. Jonathon Wright wrote a newsletter on adrenals in which he stated that B5, B6, magnesium and salt were nutritional supports for adrenal glands. There is also a supplement made from the actual ground-up adrenal material from ovine, bovine or porcine sources. In our group, we discovered the work of Dr. Lendon Smith and Dr. John Kitkowsky, in Lendon Smith’s book, Feed Your Body Right. Their olfactory test has proven to be a useful tool in figuring out what nutrients we need and how much; and monitoring the balance. We found, using the olfactory test, that we are very individual in our supplement needs. Our research in this area is on-going.
Myself, I had been taking 1000 mg of pantothenic acid (B5,) 700 mg of magnesium, 120 mg of the special B6 (pyridoxal 5 phosphate or P5P) as well as one of the ground-up adrenals supplements daily. I found that I was not having the overwhelmed, hitting-bottom feeling that signals much stressed adrenals, but I wasn’t feeling very perky either. With 500 mg more of B5 and 50 mg more of P5P, things improved dramatically. Using our nutrient test kit, I checked to make sure this was not driving something else down and sure enough riboflavin, B2, also needed an increase. Since doing these things, I no longer need the ‘ground-up adrenal’ supplement, which pleases me as it indicates that I am coming closer to healing my adrenals. I also notice more tolerance of all the different types of stressors as you will see enumerated below.
Stressors
One stressor for me, which no one picked up until just two months ago, was my ribs. My 11th and 12th ribs on the left were jammed up under my 10th rib. This was probably caused by a childhood fall. I was a free-range child with my mother very ill and then gone, so I had some nasty falls on my back from a hay loft, on my chest when my sister and I were playing cowboys and she tied me up and another on my middle when standing on a large log that rolled. The effect on my digestive, respiratory and adrenal system of having these ribs poking my innards can only be guessed. Fortunately, my osteopath finally was able to figure it out and release them. I’m now having the fun of stretching out very old scar tissue.
Members of Health Pursuits Reading and Research would define stress on a wider basis than most:
- Air-borne exposures such as chemicals, molds, pollens and danders;
- Water-borne exposures such as bacteria, chemicals, hormones, lead, asbestos, chlorine, fluride and varying mineral content;
- Food reactions including IgE (anaphylactic symptoms) and IgG sensitivities (non-anaphylactic, inflammatory symptoms such as fatigue, brain fog, muscle pain), and inability to digest some foods such as gluten (wheat family grains) or casein (dairy products);
- Deficiencies of crucial nutrients whether macronutrients such as protein or essential fatty acids or micronutrients such as vitamin D, vitamin C, B vitamins or minerals;
- Movement difficulties such as poorly-integrated reflexes, scars from surgeries, injuries or birth trauma, genetic malformations, as well as
- Life events or situations (which are more commonly viewed as stress).
When you add in the natural hormonal variations of the female body, especially as it approaches big changes like pregnancy or menopause, then you can see this is a big complicated task to manage.
One story
A member of Health Pursuits Reading and Research did a brilliant thing recently. She has PTSD (from abuse) and was having anxiety attacks lasting 5 hours or more. She decided to try our nutrient test kit at the beginning of an anxiety attack to see what nutrients would become deficient. She did this and took the items indicated. The anxiety attack was gone in about half an hour. She has repeated this strategy in order to hone in on her specific requirements when anxiety does attack. A complication is that different combinations of stressors can trigger the anxiety attacks.
This member had a long history of relational trauma from first family to later partners and an equally long history of psychological therapies to deal with these. Like so many members of our group, she did not begin to realize the effect of other factors until she joined us four years ago. At that point, she began by using our nutrient test kit to monitor, at first almost daily, her nutrient requirements. She also started to investigate her food sensitivities, finding a big difference in the effect of some foods, e.g., she is quite sensitive to poison ivy, and foods like cashews and mango, which are related, cause trouble. Gluten and dairy were also found to be problematic. Then there was the damp, moldy basement of her home. A death in the family, the realization that her home was not a safe place for her and possibly stress from sudden release of stored toxins with the improvement of nutrition all caused a temporary slide into dysfunction. From a women’s shelter, she was still able to arrange to sell her home, buy another one and move within a few months.
Once in a non-moldy home, other stressors revealed themselves. Hormones were out of balance, so testing and supplementation of estrogen and progesterone with bioidenticals were a relief. Paint, renovation materials, traffic fumes, oil furnace fumes all caused reactions anxiety reactions, which she was at first unused to relating to chemicals. Through it all, she maintained her nutritional program, adjusting it as she (and we) learned more. She tried to deal with the dietary issues too. These are difficult because reactions to chemicals and other stressors can make food cravings worse. I myself become very hungry when exposed to petrochemicals as at a gas station. Then she did the experiment with the anxiety attacks.
Now she is back in her circle of family and friends, has a stable relationship, runs her own business, works out with a friend, and walks and plays with her new puppy all of which continue to pump in the positive neurochemicals that help her keep well. She is a fan of movies with humor and fun as well to keep her spirits up. She is quick to cancel events that are overload items and to use groups like Weight Watchers, Al-Anon, as well as help-phone lines to bridge the gap as the nutrients take time to heal the basic problems.
More information
To work through the issues, you can go to our web site www.healthpursuitsgroup.com, the content of which is our whole basic workbook. For more detailed help, you can then go to our blog at http://ddawberblog.wordpress.com. That is what we can supply for free. Hard copies of our book on diet are available for $20 and our whole test kit costs $185 (which a group of people could share since it is reusable for at least 2 years as many times as wished.)
When the dominos fall, prying up just one is difficult and will not make it easier to lift the others. Action on as many dominos as possible is necessary. Awareness of the possibilities, observation and patience in trying strategies will help you succeed.
I really appreciate the idea of nutrition and information about health.
What I’ve figured out recently (2 years since discovery and learning about sociopaths):
1. My mother was a sociopath (on a scale of 1 to 10, she was a 20).
2. My husband is a sociopath (1 to 10, he is about an 8).
3. I have Celiac disease (chronic allergy to gluten).
These 3 facts about my life sum up everything that has “challenged” and “harmed” me. Everything. So simple, but so loooooong to figure out the “real story.”
I’m still working through acceptance and so grateful for all the info on LoveFraud.
As I was sitting, this morning, by the window, overlooking the mountain, I heard two magpies (black birds) sitting up on the wires, ‘cawing’, drying their feathers from the damp night, happy to see the sunshine….
I noticed, as I sat there, listening and just looking out the window, a cat, creeping up the walkway, going towards the ‘cawing’, lurking, stalking those birds! Those birds HAVE TO BE at least 15 lbs. a piece, clearly too big and too fast and too strong for that cat to catch and devour, although I saw it desperately trying to…
And it dawned on me, THAT what I saw in that cat, is exactly the same passion and drive the x spath has. It doesn’t quit until it devours what it wants. Oh sure, they all start out as demure and kind, charming, intelligent, caring…but then that mask comes off, once they realize you actually love them and care…that mask comes off and we get to see the REAL ‘monster’ within. The monster that I saw would leave dead people frightful in their graves. I am serious. Dead serious.
It’s difficult to understand how our genuine and sincere actions could illicit something so dreadful and wicked but it happens. I never saw it coming. It was one horrid thing after another, all with ‘reasons’ and ‘excuses’ attached to it: smoke screens, covers, blah blah blah – the worst thing about being LIED to is knowing you weren’t worth the truth. Especially after so many years that you have given of yourself, willingly and sincerely.
Just a thought I was having this morning. Louise: Our involvement in this situation was not OUR FAULT. We willingly and caringly and sincerely gave of ourselves believing that we were doing the right things. We did it because we loved them. It doesn’t matter the situation nor the scenario we find ourselves in, whether we made mistakes or not – I accept my responsibility. I have made adjustments in my soul to never allow anyone that close to me again. It wasn’t OUR fault, but only in the sense that we were DUPED. Any other reasons are moot. The fact remains we were DUPED. I can completely relate to you Louise. My heart goes out to you. As I have told you many times, you and I could be twins regarding our situation. There is no excuse for their actions.
Once I found out it was married, it didn’t matter, because it had already made me privileged to the FACT that it had all kinds of different women and they were all older and settled and had money but yet, one by one, they all told it good bye and I heard all the whine stories and listened to all the ranting every time it happened. I used to believe in it and think all it needed was someone to truly care. But, that was the problem: too many cared and those that did were only reinforcing it’s power and control until they too serve no purpose and then it’s onto the next.
When it asked me to marry it, it’s whine was: “What am I suppose to do? Float from woman to woman? Nobody wants to accept me into their life. They are all selfish and haters. Marry me and we can always be together.” NOPE. It has always been NOPE. As I told it: ‘THIS ROADSHOW STOPS HERE. RIGHT NOW. RIGHT THIS MOMENT. I am finished being disrespected and disregarded and you tried to purposely harm me – take my life from me and you let others do it too. You need to go and live with the choices you made and stay the hell away from me or I will make you stop.”
I made it to Thursday! 3 months 4 days. YAY! Maybe I will stop talking about it after I am dead. Their actions leave such an immense hole in not only our minds but our souls as well. We need to recognize the power that they have had over us and dissolve their power over us. These ruminations and constant talking about it and living it was also a part of that sick plan to destroy us with ‘love and affection’. Please~~!!!!!!! As I told it: “You are a stranger to me. I don’t even know you anymore.” And, as it stood there, with tears and bewilderment on it’s face, telling me “IT LOVES ME”, I told IT: “You don’t even speak that word to me anymore as long as you live because you don’t know what that word means. You will NEVER know what that word means. You are evil and vile and you need to leave me NOW and NEVER come back. Not ever.”
So far, so good. 😉
HAPPY THURSDAY PEEPS!
Louise: I have asked Donna to introduce us.
I would like very much to be your ‘off blog’ friend as well. xxoo
Duped NO MORE!
Louise: I have asked Donna to introduce us.
I would like very much to be your ’off blog’ friend as well. xxoo
Duped NO MORE!
DUPED NO MORE:
I sent my email address. You should have it now. I look forward to talking with you.
DUPED NO MORE:
It sounds beautiful where you live unlike where I am.
Haven’t received it yet, Louise.
It will come. 🙂
It’s beautiful here but everything you hear about California is true: congested with people and traffic – most of the people are very rude and matter of fact – ruthless people. BUT: contrary to what you might think, the people of HOLLYWOOD are just amazing people. Open minded, caring, loving, giving. I have seen so much good come out of all those celebrities and movie making and the entertainment industry, since I have been in California, that when I watch those ‘rag shows’, it leaves me speechless because more than half the time, it isn’t like that or that way at all. A lot of times, I saw HOLLYWOOD step up to the plate, when nobody else was. Providing not only moral support but freely giving financial as well.
Things aren’t always what they seem. They are normal people just like us who go to work everyday, just like us. They have families and lives, just like us. The rest of it is illusion. Kind of like what the spath has done to us but they have done it in a POSITIVE way… 😉
Looking forward to talking, Louise.
xxoo
DUPED NO MORE:
I need to get away. I have felt this intense need in the past few days to get away from here. My best friend lives on an island on one of the most beautiful places on earth and that’s where I want to be, but won’t be able to go until at least this fall or maybe winter.
It’s good to know the celebrities are good people. We tend to hear so much bad about them. It’s unfair because as you said, they are just human like the rest of us.
Oh right on, Louise! Getting away is a great idea! I would have done it by now except I can’t travel too far from the hospital now. I used to travel the world! Been to LOTS of wonderful places. Just before my heart attack, I was planning on a trip to Africa! 🙂 I so wanted to see Africa and different places in Europe. It won’t happen now. I can’t travel like I used to because of my medical condition. That part of my life is just over now.
Well, that’s wonderful: this fall or winter. WHAT AN EXCITING trip you have to plan! Just put all this crap aside and make that ‘getting away’ your focal point from now until you do and I can guarantee it will happen! 🙂
The only thing I was never prepared for was the ‘coming back’ part; ahahahahaha – many times I had thought of ‘jumping ship’ or ‘hiding over’ in a far and distant land…maybe I should have and I wouldn’t be in THIS MANIA and MADNESS!
Still no email, Louise… 🙁 We’ll hook it up!
Put a smile on that lovable face and just know somebody loves you and is thinking of you, Louise.
Dupey
Louise ~ Is there a place, close to where you are, where you can go just for a day or two? Even if it’s only a few miles away, it could be an escape for you. Just a thought… to get you by until you can go to your friend’s island home. 🙂
Oh yay! H2H: excellent idea! 🙂 Can we come too, Louise? haha
Yah…I go to the beach, here, every so often, just to forget about it all……….everything; all of it. It renews my soul and my strength to just ‘get away’. You? H2H?? In fact, I think I may have to do just that: plan a trip to the beach. I love to go there and walk until I drop, collecting seashells. I have a collection that is so huge. Often times, my family will jest: “No wonder there is so much climate change and global warming: YOU are taking all those shells!” Well, I think if I didn’t, someone else would, so why not me?!! 🙂 My home is FILLED with coral and shells – all things I have gotten on my journey’s. One time I got a piece of coral so huge…they actually let me bring it home too! Not like anymore, where you would be in trouble for having it. This was many years ago now. But there was nothing quite like diving into the middle of the ocean, down so deep…grabbing that chunk of coral and bringing it home. I remember what the feeling was like being that far down into the ocean. So peaceful and serene. I think in my next life, I am going to come back as a porpoise or some kind of sea creature. I just love the oceans so!
Enough of daydreaming about the ocean! I will be in my car and driving to the beach and I really have things to do today! 😉
Good day to you Dear H2H: I hope you will have an amazing day today.
Love & Blessings~~