Editor’s note: Diane Dawber is a founder of the Health Pursuits Reading Group. A Lovefraud reader suggested the following contribution on alternative health strategies. Please remember that Lovefraud is not a medical resource, and if you are suffering from symptoms like those discussed below you should consult a doctor.
Adrenals and PTSD
By Diane Dawber
In 1996, a small group of mostly professionals, felled too early by chronic illnesses such as Fibromyalgia (FM), Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS), Multiple Chemical Sensitivities (MCS), asthma, arthritis, etc., started studying together to see what they could do for themselves since the medical system did not have much to offer. With books recommended by the few doctors who were studying nutrition, environment, diet, etc., they read, tried out the strategies, discussed results and compiled data.
After spending a million dollars on diets, supplements, therapies, etc, they have narrowed down to some strategies that are cost, time and results effective. All the original members, as well as many others, are using these strategies and they are so much better than they were 15 years ago, despite all being in their sixties. The group is now incorporated as a Canadian not-for-profit, Health Pursuits Reading and Research: MEND. The goal is to help as many people as they can, despite no funding other than memberships. Diseases receive funding. Political action receives funding. Getting well doesn’t rate.
Background
I myself was the worst case of FM my Toronto doctor had ever seen. After 25 years as a teacher, in 1990 I was disabled and totally unable to be active in my career. I was in terrible pain 24/7. I could check my email once a week with difficulty. I could lift only a pound without repercussions. I couldn’t sit or stand or walk for 5 minutes without worse pain. Plus, I have contradictory reactions to opiates like codeine. I was so chemically sensitive that I couldn’t read a newspaper or go downtown without headache and nausea from fumes. I thought my life was over.
The worst thing was that doctors took one look at my file and saw that my mother had committed suicide when I was 8, and a string of other unpleasant events through the rest of my life. My illness must be psychological. Just didn’t want to work. The hypnotherapy doctor told me that I was just showing off when I got a Masters degree. You can read the horror story in my book, Lifting the Bull (Quarry Press, 1999), which I assembled page by painful page as the reading group and I explored the alternate medical universe.
In 1995, I started working with Dr. Kathleen Kerr and Dr. Lynn Marshall at the Environmental Health Clinic in Toronto. Dr. Kerr recommended books on nutrition, diet and environmental clean-up. We learned of other books from the few similar doctors. I got rid of chemicals and mold. I did the IgG allergy testing and changed my diet to eliminate problem foods. I had blood testing to identify some deficiencies. I had osteopathic treatment for biomechanical problems.
Now I’m 65 and today I cleaned up the house, did errands, went to my exercise class, made a big batch of soup, walked for an hour, worked in the garden, did emails and other writing all without pain or fatigue.
Adrenal function
One particular nutritional area of study has proven most useful. That is adrenal function. Adrenals mediate allergic/stress responses, in other words, PTSD. When a situation provokes an adrenaline response, blood vessels narrow, blood pressure goes up, rational thought is suppressed in favour of ‘flight or fight,’ glucose dumps into the blood stream driving up blood sugar, fluids are lost, digestion either stops or empties you get the picture. This is not a good state in which to make decisions about anything from what to eat to what do with your future.
Adrenaline spikes, you get a buzz, and then what? Adrenaline must be processed by our bodies. Then the adrenals need to make more.  After many such episodes, the nutrients the adrenals require to function may become deficient so they cannot respond as well. Then when an incident provokes an adrenaline response, you become extremely fatigued and have lots of other symptoms. Uzzi Reiss’ book, The Natural Superwoman, has a good chapter on adrenaline, explaining different stages of adrenal wear and tear. (Research cortisol as well.)
Supplements
The biochemical elements that are used in processing adrenaline are being studied. Many years ago, Dr. Jonathon Wright wrote a newsletter on adrenals in which he stated that B5, B6, magnesium and salt were nutritional supports for adrenal glands. There is also a supplement made from the actual ground-up adrenal material from ovine, bovine or porcine sources.  In our group, we discovered the work of Dr. Lendon Smith and Dr. John Kitkowsky, in Lendon Smith’s book, Feed Your Body Right. Their olfactory test has proven to be a useful tool in figuring out what nutrients we need and how much; and monitoring the balance. We found, using the olfactory test, that we are very individual in our supplement needs. Our research in this area is on-going.
Myself, I had been taking 1000 mg of pantothenic acid (B5,) 700 mg of magnesium, 120 mg of the special B6 (pyridoxal 5 phosphate or P5P) as well as one of the ground-up adrenals supplements daily. I found that I was not having the overwhelmed, hitting-bottom feeling that signals much stressed adrenals, but I wasn’t feeling very perky either. With 500 mg more of B5 and 50 mg more of P5P, things improved dramatically. Using our nutrient test kit, I checked to make sure this was not driving something else down and sure enough riboflavin, B2, also needed an increase. Since doing these things, I no longer need the ‘ground-up adrenal’ supplement, which pleases me as it indicates that I am coming closer to healing my adrenals. I also notice more tolerance of all the different types of stressors as you will see enumerated below.
Stressors
One stressor for me, which no one picked up until just two months ago, was my ribs. My 11th and 12th ribs on the left were jammed up under my 10th rib. This was probably caused by a childhood fall. I was a free-range child with my mother very ill and then gone, so I had some nasty falls on my back from a hay loft, on my chest when my sister and I were playing cowboys and she tied me up and another on my middle when standing on a large log that rolled. The effect on my digestive, respiratory and adrenal system of having these ribs poking my innards can only be guessed. Fortunately, my osteopath finally was able to figure it out and release them. I’m now having the fun of stretching out very old scar tissue.
Members of Health Pursuits Reading and Research would define stress on a wider basis than most:
- Air-borne exposures such as chemicals, molds, pollens and danders;
- Water-borne exposures such as bacteria, chemicals, hormones, lead, asbestos, chlorine, fluride and varying mineral content;
- Food reactions including IgE (anaphylactic symptoms) and IgG sensitivities (non-anaphylactic, inflammatory symptoms such as fatigue, brain fog, muscle pain), and inability to digest some foods such as gluten (wheat family grains) or casein (dairy products);
- Deficiencies of crucial nutrients whether macronutrients such as protein or essential fatty acids or micronutrients such as vitamin D, vitamin C, B vitamins or minerals;
- Movement difficulties such as poorly-integrated reflexes, scars from surgeries, injuries or birth trauma, genetic malformations, as well as
- Life events or situations (which are more commonly viewed as stress).
When you add in the natural hormonal variations of the female body, especially as it approaches big changes like pregnancy or menopause, then you can see this is a big complicated task to manage.
One story
A member of Health Pursuits Reading and Research did a brilliant thing recently. She has PTSD (from abuse) and was having anxiety attacks lasting 5 hours or more. She decided to try our nutrient test kit at the beginning of an anxiety attack to see what nutrients would become deficient. She did this and took the items indicated. The anxiety attack was gone in about half an hour. She has repeated this strategy in order to hone in on her specific requirements when anxiety does attack. A complication is that different combinations of stressors can trigger the anxiety attacks.
This member had a long history of relational trauma from first family to later partners and an equally long history of psychological therapies to deal with these. Like so many members of our group, she did not begin to realize the effect of other factors until she joined us four years ago. At that point, she began by using our nutrient test kit to monitor, at first almost daily, her nutrient requirements.  She also started to investigate her food sensitivities, finding a big difference in the effect of some foods, e.g., she is quite sensitive to poison ivy, and foods like cashews and mango, which are related, cause trouble. Gluten and dairy were also found to be problematic. Then there was the damp, moldy basement of her home. A death in the family, the realization that her home was not a safe place for her and possibly stress from sudden release of stored toxins with the improvement of nutrition all caused a temporary slide into dysfunction. From a women’s shelter, she was still able to arrange to sell her home, buy another one and move within a few months.
Once in a non-moldy home, other stressors revealed themselves. Hormones were out of balance, so testing and supplementation of estrogen and progesterone with bioidenticals were a relief. Paint, renovation materials, traffic fumes, oil furnace fumes all caused reactions anxiety reactions, which she was at first unused to relating to chemicals. Through it all, she maintained her nutritional program, adjusting it as she (and we) learned more. She tried to deal with the dietary issues too. These are difficult because reactions to chemicals and other stressors can make food cravings worse. I myself become very hungry when exposed to petrochemicals as at a gas station. Then she did the experiment with the anxiety attacks.
Now she is back in her circle of family and friends, has a stable relationship, runs her own business, works out with a friend, and walks and plays with her new puppy all of which continue to pump in the positive neurochemicals that help her keep well. She is a fan of movies with humor and fun as well to keep her spirits up. She is quick to cancel events that are overload items and to use groups like Weight Watchers, Al-Anon, as well as help-phone lines to bridge the gap as the nutrients take time to heal the basic problems.
More information
To work through the issues, you can go to our web site www.healthpursuitsgroup.com, the content of which is our whole basic workbook. For more detailed help, you can then go to our blog at http://ddawberblog.wordpress.com. That is what we can supply for free. Hard copies of our book on diet are available for $20 and our whole test kit costs $185 (which a group of people could share since it is reusable for at least 2 years as many times as wished.)
When the dominos fall, prying up just one is difficult and will not make it easier to lift the others. Action on as many dominos as possible is necessary. Awareness of the possibilities, observation and patience in trying strategies will help you succeed.
Dear OpalRose,
Welcome to Love Fraud! I’m sorry that you have the qualifcations to join our club, but if you do have those qualifications, then it is the BEST of the BEST!!!! Welcome.
There are 7-800 articles here in the archives, so start under “what is a sociopath” and read and read and read. The more we know the better. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER.
So again, welcome! God bless.
DUPED NO MORE:
That’s too bad you can’t travel anymore. It is so fun and enriches our lives. I love to travel. I have not been to Europe yet, but it is definitely on my list.
I wish I lived close to the ocean. I would try to go as much as I could if I did.
I have been to my friend’s house the past several years in a row. I was there less than a year ago. She has a multimillion dollar house on top of the bargain of living in paradise so when I go there, I am queen for as long as I am there. It is heaven. She wants me to live there, but I have never been able to make it a reality for whatever reason. So I can’t wait to make the journey there again this year.
Yeah, the coming back part. That is always tough. My friend and I always cry when it’s time for me to leave. When I went last year, I stayed a full three weeks!! It was really hard to leave after that amount of time.
h2h:
Yes, there is a place I can go and actually it’s funny you should mention it because I am going to try to go next week. It’s a place I went for the Fourth of July and it was great. I can drive there in a couple hours and just spend the day and drive back or stay overnight even. Thanks for suggesting that…
Happiness and Shortcuts to Happiness….
Find happiness, FAST:
http://stress.about.com/od/tensiontamers/a/happiness.htm?nl=1
Louise ~ Sometimes even the smallest escapes can help a LOT. Just a bit of a change of scenery, even across town can help. The important thing is that it helps to change our frame of mind, at least for a little while. Hugs. h2h
I feel like you, sometimes, Louise…that just getting away feels like running away. 🙂 You run away and then once you get there, you like it so much, you never want to come home! ahahahahahaha
That is the WORSE thing about ‘running away’.
When my children cause me grief (now that I am older and not in such HOT medical shape) they instantly have become my parents! ahahahaha – I tell them all the time if they don’t stop giving me grief (I have curfew’s; they want names, dates, ID, etc.-seriously); I told them if they keep causing me such grief, I am going to run away, move to Vegas and become a ‘showgirl’. ahahahahahaha
They laugh and don’t believe me but I absolutely MEAN it.
“Life” has never ‘scared’ me nor made me ‘insecure’ like it does some people. I have always found life a challenge; exhilirating; mysterious; until SPATH IDIOT came into my world. Suddenly it was like an eclipse of the sun! For five years I allowed myself to live in the clutches of a psychopath. That still blows me away…all the betrayal and deceptions and lies.
I heard someone, here, once say:
“They even tell lies when the truth would serve them better.”
It’s true. All of it is true. I don’t understand and NONE of us will ever understand WHY or HOW this all happened. It just did. We trusted someone and they defiled our very souls, our beliefs and virtues, for their own sick incapability to control their own heathenistic ways. I used to think all people could change if they really wanted to. I don’t believe that anymore. “IT” makes me believe THIS now. SOME PEOPLE WANT TO BETTER THEMSELVES: SOCIOPATHS/PSYCHOPATHS don’t. They could care less! They are like wild animals, on the hunt. Nothing sates their hunger for power and dominance.
So, if that is true, like I am sure it is, WHY are we still stuck in this place, inside our selves? We KNOW in our heart of hearts that the way we were treated was horrid. Unacceptable. Any human being would have found those actions unacceptable, as well. Except, for the sp &ps, they have no clue what we are talking about. I saw mine TRYING to understand and become bewildered and then throw it right in the garbage. There is no taming them. They are like rabid wolves in the wild.
We must make the decision that we find their behavior so totally unacceptable that we CHOOSE to NOT be a part of it any longer and make that commitment to ourselves that it is NOT going to continue in thought, actions, words, deeds, any longer. We need to stand up for ourselves and say: ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
For a lot of us, I realize our nightmares have moved on –
they have moved on past us now and we are all in the stage of trying to collect what is left from the hurricane. You have to remember, all the while you are feeling the horrid things you are feeling, that “IT” just doesn’t even care. In fact, when it tells stories about you, it probably laughs, like mine does and blames you for it’s entire lifetime of hardships. It begins to BELIEVE the lies it tells so much so that they want to harm you.
Since I believe MOST sp &ps are not prone to violence, I DO believe that the next best thing is messing with your head and your emotions. They want us to destroy ourselves. Since THEY can’t do it and don’t want to pay the price for it, they find alternative ways. Think about this. It’s a lot more involved than looks on the surface. It’s more than betrayal. More than lies and deception. It’s more than disrespect and disloyalty…
All we can do is live NOW without their torment around us. We got RID of the actual torment, NOW we need to recognize that these ruminations are a part of what has happened to us. WE CAN change this nightmare within ourselves but it takes work. Hard work. It isn’t something we can wish away – we need to rearrange the way we look at it. We need to come to terms with our own inadequacies in the process. We have to CHANGE some of what we thought before into what we think NOW. That doesn’t come by wishing it away or talking it away or being lost in that rabbit hole…
Hang tight; it’s all about what you will accept and what you will not. Don’t let them have your hearts. That is what they want. But instead of wanting to capture it with sincere affection and kindnesses, they want to actually HAVE IT AND DEVOUR IT and we are letting them. Even now.
So, that’s my take on it after many years of thought, prayers and meditation. There are just evil spirits who walk among us and hate the ‘light’ in the world. Their only mission is to snuff it out and if you end up loving such a thing, once they have you completely in their possession, they will suck your last breath from you as they are making love with you and leave you there dead, while they walk away laughing because it makes them feel powerful that they have stolen your soul.
With so much love to you all ~
DUPED NO MORE:
It makes me sad that you once had an exhilaration for life and the spath took that away. Breaks my heart. But I know you can get it back. You will.
Hi Dear Louise: It is a constant process. Not an event. It takes balancing ourselves and realizing and accepting that there are no answers, rhyme nor reason for the things that happened to us. There is no blame – only on them. We gave of ourselves and the best we had to give and that was chewed up and spit back at us. So, it’s time to let it fall by the way side because we are much better than this and deserve way better.
I don’t know if I will ever get that exhilaration for life BACK but I have to try. Yes, your situation breaks my heart as well. But I know and I believe that you are going to make it. I just know you will, Louise. xxoo
I need to do whatever it is going to take to get past this.
DUPED NO MORE:
It is definitely a long process.
WE need to do whatever it is going to take to get past this.
Yes, Louise, it is.
WE DO need to do whatever it is going to take to get past this.
and WE ARE doing whatever it takes to get past this – with grace and class and style, Lady…and don’t you ever forget that! xxoo