Behavior genetic studies of children, adolescents, and adults all report that the overlap of antisocial tendencies (broadly defined) with other psychopathic traits (e.g., interpersonal, affective) can be explained by common genetic factors.-Robert Hare, Ph.D.
The most profound things researchers say about reality are often so difficult to understand that the average person wants to turn and run away when the researchers begin to speak. The statement above might have that affect on you but stick around because I want to explain it this week. This statement gets to the heart of the most important controversies regarding sociopathy/psychopathy.
First I will give you a definition of antisocial behavior that one of my students came up with. I think it is very good:
Antisocial behavior means things people intentionally do that infringe on other people’s rights to live their lives. Antisocial behavior is hurtful.
Notice that antisocial behavior is purposeful and reflects the person’s underlying motives. The link to personality lies in this link to motives. Many personality traits are a reflection of an individual’s preferred motives and pleasures.
Antisocial tendencies don’t reflect a simple callous indifference, they reflect behavior that is motivated and goal directed.
With that out of the way, I will give you a simple translation of the statement:
People who hurt others a lot have similar personalities. The same genes produce both the hurtful behavior and the “hurtful personality type.”
The above statement appears in an article entitled, “The role of antisocial tendencies in the psychopathy construct.” In this paper Dr. Hare lays out an argument that antisocial tendencies and the psychopathic personality type are inseparable. You can’t separate habitually hurtful behavior from the personalities of the people who have this habit. Furthermore, the same genes play a role in the development of habitually hurtful behavior and the development of the hurtful personality.
I’ll say it again another way. You cannot separate the evil someone does from the evil someone is. It also appears there is an evil gene or more likely, evil genes. If you are wondering if a person you know is a “sociopath/psychopath” use this statement to guide your thinking.
If a child you love has the genes of a sociopathic/ psychopathic person you should be motivated to understand all of this. As I considered the implications of genetics for myself and my family I asked a number of questions.
1. Many papers say the “psychopaths” as diagnosed by a checklist interview (The PCL-R) are different from “sociopaths” or those who have “antisocial personality disorder.” Well if that is true, do they have different genes?
2. What do we know about the evil genes themselves and what they are doing?
With these questions in mind, I read the scientific literature looking for evidence that psychopaths have their own special genetics. In the end, I discovered what Dr. Hare says, that there are genes that increase the likelihood of antisocial behavior including its extreme- criminal behavior. There are also genes that link to the personality traits of hurtful people and criminals. The genes appear to be the same genes.
Furthermore, there is a genetic connection between hurtful behavior, addiction and ADHD. That is why I decided to subtitle my book “A guide to overcoming your child’s genetic connection to antisocial behavior, addiction and ADHD” and NOT “A guide to overcoming your child’s genetic link to a psychopath.”
The bad news is that since all these disorders are genetically linked we have to worry about our kids’ risk for ADHD and addiction in addition to their risk for sociopathy/psychopathy. The link between alcoholism/addiction and psychopathy/sociopathy has been known since the 1940s, early writers like Dr. Cleckley (author of The Mask of Sanity) commented on it.
Now what do we know about the nature of evil genes? In my book, I explain that studies seem to show that these genes code for certain temperaments. The list of temperamental traits I came up with is on page 166 of my book and is given below:
Inborn Attribute |
Definition |
Aloof | Difficulty forming and enjoying attachments |
Impulsive | Defective impulse control |
Fearless | Lack of fear |
Outgoing | Strong desire to explore social and physical environment |
Dominant | Strong desire to be at the top of the pecking order |
Anger-Prone | “Hair-trigger” for anger |
I am always on the lookout for other people’s lists of the genetically determined temperamental traits associated with antisocial behavior and sociopathy/psychopathy. In their book, the Psychology of Criminal Conduct, Drs. D.A. Andrews and James Bonita discuss the search for the “crime gene.” They summarize the findings as follows:
“The findings from family lineage, twin, and adoption studies also converge and conclude that there is a genetic component to criminal behavior. It is not criminal behavior per se that is inherited but temperamental characteristics such as impulsivity, sensation-seeking, and negative emotionality that are inherited.”
Notice the overlap between their list and mine. Outgoing and sensation-seeking are the same thing. Being anger-prone is part of negative emotionality.
If you have read my book, you know that it paints a picture of hope for the kids that carry these genes. Just look at the list for yourself. Probably the most worrisome temperamental trait on the list above is aloofness. However, an inborn tendency toward aloofness does not have to translate into antisocial behavior. If a detached child can be taught to engage in prosocial goals, then the detachment won’t be as much of an issue. For example, there are many interesting occupations that do not require a lot of social interaction. These are ideally suited to those with a tendency toward being aloof.
An awareness of the list of temperamental traits a child may have been born with is an important first step in guiding that child. If you know the list, you know what to look for and you can come up with strategies to make the best of your own child’s temperament. Rather than trying to make a child into someone he/she is not, it is better to try to work with who he/she is.
Notice that several of the traits are also associated with leadership potential. So the same list of genetic traits can lead to the development of a contributing prosocial person or an antisocial person depending on environmental factors. Genetics plays a role in antisocial tendencies and psychopathic personality traits but a person is not only the product of genes. Parenting, adult mentors, peers, educational opportunities and physical health may all make a difference.
A child with poor impulse control does not have to live with a high level of disability any more than a dyslexic child has to live with an inability to read. Both groups of children require special education to overcome their genetics.
The radio just quoted “a joke” from the late night talk show host Conan O’brien, “They have had a hard time finding jurors for the upcoming OJ Simpson armed robbery trial”¦ They are having a hard time finding a jury of his peers”¦ those who have gotten away with a double murder.”
OJ Simpson exemplifies all the writings about inborn temperaments, antisocial behavior and psychopathy. He has a history of antisocial behavior including domestic violence and more. He also has psychopathic personality traits. No one will deny that the man has a number of gifts that likely have a strong genetic basis. These gifts range from athletic talent to interpersonal charisma. It appears from my vantage point that all of these gifts have been used directly and indirectly for evil.
To summarize then, the temperamental traits that lead to the evil a person is and the evil a person does can also can lead to the good a person is and the good a person does. The direction that any given person’s life takes is influenced by many things including parenting, peers, trauma and perhaps most importantly, personal choice. Genetics puts a person at risk but does not necessarily determine his/her destiny.
For more on guiding and parenting children with genetic risk see Parentingtheatriskchild.com and my parenting blog.
BloggerT7165 said: “I am one of those that believe in the difference between a sociopath and a psychopath. I am also one of those that think to many lay people are ready to call someone a P,S, or N when they are really just jerks (who have traits of the P,S, or N).”
I definitely agree with the above. I had a boyfriend once that I probably would have looked at the PCL-R (if I’d known about it at the time) and said oh my God he’s a psychopath! IF I had not later ended up with an actual psychopath. The boyfriend, IMO, was just a garden variety badboy type who sometimes engaged in jerk behavior. Yeah, he was a pain in the a** as a boyfriend and he loved the ladies, but a sociopath, or psychopath–nah–not even in the same ballfield IMO.
I, personally, think you could look at the majority of people on the planet and at some point in their life, under certain circumstances, they are gonna demonstrate some of the traits on the psychopathy checklist, at least in a mild form, (excluding the criminal ones). But do they demonstrate the traits in a consistent manner across most areas of their live over the long haul–nah.
I also don’t believe in the “successful” psychopath. I think they can have short stretches of success. But very short stretches. If a successful psychopath can be found, I think he or she should be put on display in a museum or something cause I wanna see him/her. 🙂
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Wow ! you mention Facial Expressions WOW!
I have an album Of Pics Just of (it) ! See How obssessed I was ? but what you Relate is So true! In (its) pics you can see a Hollow empty distant Nothingness! now there are pics when (it) is happy those look Great ! but it is those pics that appear hopeless that are truely telling
LOVE Jere
Guys,
I don’t differentiate between a “socio” and a “psycho”-path, but I do agree that there are DIFFERENCE OF DEGREES OF VIOLENCE (physical and emotional) in personality disordered people.
Just like there are people who are 4′ tall and people who are 7′ tall, there are people who are on the “short end” of psychopathic behavior and people who are on the “tall end” and more people are in the “middle” of the Bell Curve of psychopathic behavior.
If you take “normal” behavior and make a Bell curve out of it, it will sometimes “overlap” with the Psychopathic behavior, because even “normal” people do “bad” or “uncaring” things at times, but the PATTERNS of behavior of the people who are personality disordered fall within the range of the Psychopathic Bell Curve. Most fall within the mid-range.
There is enough confusion about the “terms” that you call THEM (whatever term you use) I don’t think it matters a rat’s behind WHAT YOU CALL THEM EXCEPT “PERSONALITY DISORDERED” That covers all kinds, all ranges and it doesn’t matter if they are on the “low end” or the “tall end” they are ALL TOXIC to relationships.
“Hair splitting” about the difference between Ns and Ps (by whatever name) to me is a useless waste of time (though I have spent many hours doing it myself LOL) if we just say “that person is personality disordered, they are not going to change” it covers ALL CONTENGENCIES of the relationship, GET THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE FOREVER IF POSSIBLE. At least out of your “zone of trust” and move on with your life.
Learn to spot the RED FLAGS of PERSONALITY DISORDERS and do it EARLY so they won’t have you hooked too deeply and the separation won’t hurt so badly for you.
Indie,
I know of two facial expressions many s/p’s hold in common. One is your “Hollow empty distant Nothingness” and the other is the purpose driven predatory stare. I once watched a psychopath try to convince this young guy that he could make him a model, all the while staring at him with the most intense, blinkless, cold concentration in the world. Obviously, imo, he was trying to figure out the hook to manipulate the young man. These stares should be paid attention to.
Imo, almost all male s/p’s are bisexual (or even pansexual) but they feel no more loyalty to their gay lovers than they do female lovers. Look at Sen. Larry Craig’s behavior, ‘I’m not gay, I only take my pleasure where I find it.’
I know that LOOK TOOOOOO only to well
When he got angry it was a death stare !
Is this a true comment? “almost all s/p are bi-sexual” I already overanalyze the situation. God knows I don’t want to add to that the possibility that he could have been and I somehow didn’t pick up on that. Having had him put me in possible jeporady just by sleeping around with OW is already enough to have had me stressed out.
I believe it, Gemini. Although my story was about a female, I wouldn’t put it past her. She’s up for anything. And normal sex gets old and unsatisfying to them. That’s why it has to become more dangerous by having multiple partners, strangers, and the secret of sex while married to someone else. She had a huge problem with masturbation, and a list as long as the day of men she had cheated with. Every week, it’s someone new, and I’m sure she’s never lonely. If she thinks it’ll get attention for her and turn somebody on, she’ll do anything with anybody.
Okay – Now I’m going to starting to get paranoid. I’m a HUGE hypochondriac and get tested and have been every 6 months in the year that I’ve known him but I have a feeling I’m going to analyze this to death now.
I need someone to tell me to calm down and breath. One of these days I’m going to fool around and have a heart attack.
Gemini_Fairy: Have you read Tolle’s book “A New Earth” yet? He has parts of his book that teaches you how to go into the “now” focus on this minute, to be at peace with yourself, this minute, right now.
As soon as you train yourself in this theory (it’s beginning meditation at it’s simplist form), you can go silent in your mind and be at peace with yourself and your surroundings. Oprah’s site has his instructions on tape for free. Log on, give yourself a password and listen to his classes he had on-line with people from around the world. I find his voice so soothing.
He isn’t judging anyone … he explains the ego and how some egos (he calls them obnoxious personalities) get out of control by them, listening to their own nonsense, inside their heads.
Peace.
pathwhisperer: Great insight … well said.
Peace.