Editor’s note: Lovefraud received the following story from a reader whom we’ll call Christine22 about her involvement with a sociopath who smeared and sabotaged her.
There’s so much, too much. He got me fired, so he could move on to the new girl, he’s stolen my identity. He hijacked all my accounts, registered my tablet, phone, and google account as his own. I was catching him using his. So he used my computer to register my tablet, he created I don’t know how many different accounts, and 3rd party apps.
He’s had me stalked at home several times when I turn my location sharing off. So he couldn’t make sure I was at home and not finding him at the locations he was at and not at work like he says.
Lied about everything
He’s lied about everything for the past 5 years. Sabotaged our friend’s wedding. Lied and left me at the hotel and I was supposed to be her bridesmaid. He lied to us both, we hated each other for a year, then we chatted and discovered he lied to and about us both, just so he could walk down the aisle with someone else.
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Later tells me he’s ashamed of me. He dropped my hand in public, been involved with another woman in a relationship. The one he got me fired for.
The list is long, crazy, scary, mentally, emotionally, damaging with scars that may never heal. Trust issues. I have trust issues.
He left me alone our first Thanksgiving, crying, just to go possibly see that girl.
There’s too much to list. Traumatizing, and worst part of, due to his campaign smearing of me, no one believed me when I told them I was being stalked and followed.
Tells me he doesn’t care about me out of the blue at least once a year, every time a new girl started. Lies about working all the time. Erases evidence when I confront him.
Lord tells me he keeps breaking my heart because I let him. He knows that I won’t do anything because I’m financially dependent on him.
Counselor believes his lies
Even after I told my counselor that he was a gaslighting sociopath, she believed his lies, and targeted me because I had been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and general anxiety. Failing to see that I had become this way due to his abuse and constant lies. He had me stalked, followed, smeared and sabotaged me every chance he got. It was very discouraging
He’s proposed 3 times, always after getting caught betraying me. Sorry I am rambling, but there’s just so much evil, darkness in this man. I tell people if I disappeared look at him first.
There is nothing this man won’t do, to cover his own ass. Nothing he is not capable of doing to keep his secrets.
I’ve experienced the violent side of him when I confront him. Holes in the wall, ripped cabinet doors off. Knows he’s hurting me and does it anyways because he doesn’t care, then will ask me to marry him with a ten-dollar ring.
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Sunny
Not believing an individual when a sociopath convinces a state agency to take action on your license . No one believes the victim. Peers (nurses) the state agency are sociopaths because they are attacking the victim nurse to protect a hospital. Liars come out of the woodwork . But it is the nurses who were not involved that do not believe this can happen. Even when you show them proof on the liars , many documents that prove them to be liars . The state agency doesn’t care they only listen to the lies . Use of taxpayers money to attack someone who is now out of work . Damaging, they use the same tactics deomonize , defund, dismantle.
Donna Andersen
How awful. But unfortunately, yes, stuff like this happens too often.