What a difficult question this is—exactly what defines the sociopath?
 Joseph Neuman Ph.D, psychopathy researcher, in an extensive interview (see link to this interview previously provided by Donna Anderson: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kmZgnCHweLM) addresses this and other questions about psychopaths.
Neuman’s research, if I understand him correctly (and I did not find him to be particularly clear in his explanations) yields a picture of the psychopath, surprisingly, not as primarily emotionally defective, but rather as emotionally defective secondary to certain forms of attentional problems.
Neuman makes some interesting and, to my mind, somewhat puzzling observations. For instance, and consistent with his basic premise, he actually suggests that psychopaths may be more inclined to genuinely assist someone they perceive to be in need than non-psychopaths. Did I hear that correctly? I think so.
Neuman also suggests that the psychopath’s capacity for this kind of humane response is unfortunately, or effectively, nullified (in others’ eyes) by his more antisocial, knucklehead behaviors. Did I hear this correctly, too? I think I did.
Neuman’s basic premise—again, if I understand him correctly—is that psychopaths aren’t so much fundamentally defective emotionally as much as their emotional capacities which, alas, may be much more normal than otherwise appreciated, are essentially obscured, effectively immobilized, by their over-attention, their over-focus on their particular, momentary interest(s).
So, to be clear, if I’m understanding Neuman, he’s suggesting that psychopaths (at least some, if not many) may indeed have normal emotions, perhaps even a normal range of emotions; the problem is that they don’t “attend” to their emotions because they aren’t “cueing” to the signals that should steer them to recognize, and be better regulated, by their emotions.
Neuman suggests that when psychopaths can be directed to focus on these cues and signals, his research shows that they can and do access a range of more normal emotions. This should and, Neuman says, does result in their coming under the better, and more appropriate, stewardship of their emotions (my italics, not his).
Now on one hand, Neuman says he’s not denying that an emotional deficit lies at the core of psychopathy. Yet it seems to me that this is exactly what he’s questioning! What he is saying in the interview, it seems to me, again and again, is that, at the heart of psychopathy is less an emotional deficit than a kind of attentional deficit, a signal-attuning deficit, the consequence of which is to detach the psychopath from connection to his underlying capacity to feel, and be better regulated in his behavior, by his emotions.
Now perhaps I’ve badly misinterpreted what I heard Neuman saying. I will leave that to other LoveFraud readers to weigh in.
Also, consistent with what I hear him saying throughout the interview, Neuman takes the rather radical stance that once a psychopath, not necessarily always, hopelessly, permanently a psychopath.
He suggests, rather, that if interventions can be developed that, for instance, can help psychopaths more effectively attune to the signals that will steer their attention to their healthier emotions, well then”¦NASA, we may have arrived at something of a cure, or palliative, for psychopathy.
He envisions interventions, if I understand him properly, that would effectively liberate the humanity within the psychopath, which is obscured, if not immobilized, by his attentional problems.
Because again, he is not saying that psychopaths necessarily lack emotions, or even a range of normal emotions; remember, he goes so far as to say that some psychopaths, including those with whom he’s worked, have shown evidence of an even greater (and genuine!) responsiveness to those in need than non-psychopaths. The problem, he stresses, is that psychopaths, by virtue of their overfocus on present, reward-driven interests, are basically disconnected from their emotions. At least this is what I understand him to be saying.
Neuman makes another interesting observation. Citing Hervey Cleckley, MD, he suggests that the psychopath may have an even weaker drive to acquire what he wants than the normal individual. The problem, he says, is that their “restraints” are even weaker than their “urges.” He describes this as a case of their “weaker urges breaking through even weaker restraints.”
Neuman also asserts that you can’t define psychopathy by behaviors and actions, including, he says, actions like “defrauding” people. I understand his general point—the idea that psychopathy’s essence may be more a reflection of a mentality than specific actions.
However, a pattern of certain actions, especially exploitive actions, can reflect, can reveal, the mind—and the disorder—behind it.
As I understand Neuman, let us say we have someone who is in the process of perpetrating a cold-blooded armed robbery—and not, say, the first he’s perpetrated. He’s prepared to bind, blindfold and shoot all potential witnesses to the crime. This way he can take what he came for and not get fingered, identified, in the act. Let us say he has done this before, remorselessly.
Neuman seems to suggest that, horrible as this act would be, it’s not necessarily indicative of a psychopath. Maybe he’s right.
But let’s say this individual is a Hare-diagnosed psychopath. Neuman also seems to be proposing the idea that the killer’s primary issue isn’t necessarily the absence, somewhere, of appropriate and potentially self-regulating emotion; rather, he’s so overfocused on taking care of the business at hand—robbing, and removing witnesses to the robbery—that he’s unable to attune to the kinds of signals that would lead him to recognize, and fall under the prosocial influence, of his more normal, humane emotions.
So that, if somehow, in the course of the perpetrating of his crime, you could somehow cue him to the signals that might lead him to recognize his more “humane” emotions, you might, theoretically, be able to short-circuit the robbery and coldblooded murdering of the witnesses!
Really? That’s an interesting concept, but it’s not one that strikes me as necessarily plausible. In general, as I listened to Neuman, I found that he depicted the psychopath specifically, and psychopathy in general, in terms that seemed to me much too benign; as if the psychopath, in Neuman’s view and based on his research, isn’t necessarily lacking in humanity as much as he’s lacking certain qualities that would enable his humanity to express itself in more visible, self-regulating, prosocial ways?
What was your take on the interview?
(This article is copyrighted (c) 2010 by Steve Becker, LCSW. My use of male gender pronouns is strictly for convenience’s sake and not to suggest that females aren’t capable of the behaviors and attitudes discussed.)
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Dear Eloquent Oxy….
I am deeply saddened to hear the news….It must be over between us!
I didn’t know you wouldn’t date someone who’s had several strokes……and I guess I would fit in that catagory!
It might help to know I did roll around in an electric wheelchair, but have since ditched that. ( I even did ballroom dancing in it in the driveway with the kids….until we noticed the scratches on the driveway and the skid pad missing the next morning) 🙂
I blame you completely for our breakup, since I was upfront and honest from the getgo.
I also must confess I take SAVDOA. That would be short for Synthroid, asprin, vit. D and occasional advil!
(and if I don’t take my synthroid….I could act real crazy I bet!)
If it helps….i’ve been acused of being mentally ill. I also was accused of being an alcoholic…..although I must admit…I’m not a ‘big’ drinker, so you can judge for yourself on that.
If it makes a difference to you darlen….I can hijack back my scooter from my Uncle with Parkinsons and make a concerted effort to be depressed??
Shoot….I can even try to bring you down with me!!!!
I want you back!!!!!!
XXOO
EB
Yes, I am too, undatable. I wouldn’t really blame a normal person for not dating me….I am the person your mother warned you about….
Self acceptance is a huge plus, for me, personally, though, I love me anyway, and I forgive me. I am giving myself the care I deserve.
I have been on both prosac and paxill at different times, and they were a God send. If they blunted my over abundance of bonding/ romance/ sex hormones, well, thank God.
I think I had WAY too much of those chemicals to begin with, and was sort of ruined by them…Ddoes that make any sense?
Oxy, I understand perfectly, the spirit of your post…I’m not offended. But, I thought EB’s response was very graceful and elegant.
Just to be clear, I AM NOT A SPATH. I have been spathed. I was spathable, and have been damaged by said spathability, was probably somewhat damaged/disfunctional even before the first spathing…but today, by the grace of God, I am spath-free and working on me.
Truly, the most amazing thing, and the biggest blessing of all is this: I don’t care anymore…not interested…don’t want a relationship. Free at last. Free at last. Thank God almighty; free at last.
kim frederick,
We know that you’re not a spath, being one of us, normal folk.
Thanks, bluejay. 🙂
Kimfrederick – EB – you guys crack me up.. I agree with Kim – as I age (56) and that is not old ~! I am glad my sexual appetite is waning because in the past my little head did most of the thinking for me and got me in alot of bad places, nowadays I think with my big head and make better choices and stay in the good places, if that makes sense. And I dont care, love me for my heart and mind or not at all..Specially in the homo world it seems to be about performance and I never wanted to be a porn star..So I am aging gracefully and glad my youth is behind me and now i can be just me. Dont get me wrong everything works fine but I just dont give a rats toot about it anymore…
Spath made sex suck! And since I spent from 13-40 with him……..that’s what I knew of sex. It was for him…..not me.
I WANT ‘ME’ SEX! GOOD SEX, LOVING SEX, INTIMATE SEX, CARING SEX…….LOVE MAKING!
Touching, bonding, connection.
I trust, one day, when I do lose my 2nd virginity…..that I find a man who is worthy of ‘ME”.
Until then……I will remain a virgin….and like Hens…..continue to think with my big head!
🙂
Erin Brock:
“I WANT ’ME’ SEX! GOOD SEX, LOVING SEX, INTIMATE SEX, CARING SEX—.LOVE MAKING!
Touching, bonding, connection.
…Until then—I will remain a virgin”.and like Hens”..continue to think with my big head!”
That’s all well and good. Towanda.
In the meantime, you need to spend $150….and I think you know what I’m talking about.
Kimmie:
Just to be clear….I wasn’t offended by Oxy’s post either…..just took the opportunity to give shiat!
There are lot’s of peeps that wouldn’t be in the running to date me either.
I would prefer the perfect person……who that is ‘for me’ yet…..i’m not sure…..but some things are deal breakers…..
Character is very important. Authenticity, honesty, trust, humor…….
Rosa…..
DONE!
(funny enough….it fit’s all my ‘perfect’ criteria too!) 🙂