Sociopaths do not change. As living proof, consider the case of Theodore Sypnier.
Sypnier is a convicted child molester. He is 100 years old. He is about to be paroled, and the city of Buffalo, New York, is on edge. According to an article by the Associated Press:
“Whether he’s 100 or 101 or 105, the same person that was committing these crimes 10, 25, 30 years ago still exists today and has an unrepentant heart,” said the Rev. Terry King, director of Grace House, which has twice taken Sypnier in from prison. “He is someone that we as parents, as members of the community, any community, really need to fear.”
The incident that landed him in jail took place in 1999, when Sypnier was 90 years old. He was babysitting two girls—portraying himself as a friendly grandpa—and he molested them. The girls were ages four and seven at the time.
Even though he pleaded guilty—twice—Sypnier claims his case was a miscarriage of justice. “Those children crawled into bed with me because they were frightened, but there was never any sexual hanky-panky,” he told the Buffalo News.
Yeah, right.
This wasn’t Sypnier’s first arrest. In 1987, he was given three years’ probation for sex abuse—he was 78 years old then. In 1994, at the age of 85, he spent a year in prison for sexually abusing a minor. Who knows what he got away with during his life—his daughter came forward and said he abused her as she was growing up.
The former Erie County District Attorney, Frank J. Clark, said that as long as Sypnier “can walk and talk, he remains a threat.”
Here is more information about the case:
Oldest sex offender about to be freed here, in the Buffalo News.
100-year-old N.Y. child molester to be freed, on Msnbc.com.
For more eye-popping stories, take a look at the Parents for Megan’s Law website page on Senior Sex Offenders.
Sociopaths do not change
Some researchers and mental health professionals have said that sociopaths may “improve” with age. Do not take this as a reason to hope. A more accurate description may be that senior sociopaths no longer have the energy to pull off the stunts that they did in their youth, or they may not have the stamina to be violent. But they do not change.
I’ve received several e-mails from Lovefraud readers describing sociopathic women, now well beyond “a certain age,” who are as mean and manipulative as ever. Several sociopathic women plotted to pit their children against each other. One woman is swindling friends to obtain a free place to live. Another, after her husband’s death, played the sweet, bereaved widow so she could quickly move on to the next meal ticket.
A few months ago, I heard that my ex-husband, who is now 68, is still trying to find sugar mommas on the Internet. He talks a good game, and writes convincing e-mails. But when it comes time to close the deal, to try to convince a woman that they really were meant for each other, and they’ve been waiting all their lives for each other, all he can do is fall asleep on the couch.
It seems that the only way these people will stop is if they suffer a debilitating stroke. As long as a sociopath can talk or communicate in any way, he or she will continue to manipulate.
Thank you, dearest OXY! I was cut off, then your great blog got in! As you can see from the second half of my post,{which I put in again as it went missing, LOL!!} I am GETTING IT, and I AM GETTING THERE!! I think with all your help, and all the others help, I am getting it quite fast!!!
Thank you dearest OXy, I love you, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your wisdom, guts, input, humour.!
My Love and Prayers,!! Gem.XX
I told my N mother one time – I hope you live a very long time – because only death will get you out of your misery.
@....... henry – that’s like saying, ‘may you live interesting times’.
🙂
no – it was like saying you live a miserable life
ahh, the point was, they were both curses. 😉
Henry….
I’m dying to know…..how’d the blind date go the other night?
🙂 🙂 🙂
Erin He was a nice guy. Not my type at all. I wish I had never agreed to the date but once again someone convinced me he was just the right guy for me, boy was she wrong. Single and lovin it is my new modo.
Henry,
sorry to hear it was not so much fun.
I laughed when i read your first two sentences. I conflated them, so saw a causal relationship between the first and the second: ‘He was a nice guy. Not my type at all.’
one step
henry,
Well thats not so bad. At least you got out of the house and he was at least a nice guy! So you didn’t have to sit through an entire date with a jerk.
How do you know anymore what your “type” is? I’m not being a smart a_s….I am really asking…
Because I don’t know what my type is anymore I don’t think…..My type in the past has always been what I DON’T want in my life anymore….
henry:
Look at it this way — you got out of the house, had some pleasant dinner company, and you didn’t end up with him moving in at the end of the date or you having to buy him a new car.
I’m with witsend on whether you know what your type is anymore. The guy I’ve been seeing for 6 months definitely wouldn’t fall into the category of my old type. However, after S I sat down and made a list of what I was looking for in a person. Oddly enough, “my type” no longer even made the list. BTW, the guy I am seeing is a very handsome man, but that sort of was incidental — I was much more interested in the person he was.